<p>sorry for posting this, but I'm an idiot! I got a private message yesterday from a mom, I was in the middle of responding to it, and got totally off-track. Now, I can't find the old message, and I don't know the name of the person who PM'ed me :( </p>
<p>So, if you're the mom with the incoming daughter (the one who was very active in sports in high school, but isn't planning to play at the competitive college level) who pm'ed me, try again please!!!! sorrrrrrryyyyy!</p>