And, ha-ha, I would tend to agree with @runswimyoga. My son left Penn after 10 weeks. True, he had mitigating circumstances (3 illnesses in 10 weeks, struggles with anxiety, LDs), but Penn was definitely not the place for him. He’s a exceedingly creative introvert, not competitive, with a low capacity. He did not meet kids like himself. Even the kids who went to Penn FA (a Christian group on campus) seemed to have it all together (Penn face), and he most certainly did not. He met a lot of rich athletic party types as well as the hyper-competitive “perfect” types. For someone like him who’s insecure, Penn fed those insecurities.
OTOH, the disability support was fabulous. His advisor was fabulous, and the head of Penn FA was amazing. There are some great support systems in place there, but as @Penn95 points out, no one coddles you (which is right, it seems to me). There are some great things about Penn, for sure; I wouldn’t have let him apply if I didn’t think there was much to commend Penn. I still think OP’s DD should do more investigating of other schools with those stats.
My son wasn’t a super-star by any means: 2230 SAT, 3.95 u/w 4.41 w at the time of applying, but gpa dropped to 3.82 mid-year. No APs. about 39 units of community college in less-than-rigorous courses (English, general physics, Calculus I, Java, animation I and II), but I suspect it was his music (extensive experience as a cellist) and animation background (he applied as a Fine Arts major because Penn has excellent animation connections) that got him in RD. He wasn’t prepared for the rigors of Penn, which I consider to be the hardest of the Ivies for several reasons.