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i totally disagree with this statement and many of your previous comments on this issue.</p>
<p>Actually, African Immigrants are the one who give support to family and friends far away in Africa. It's rare that you recieve economic support from a relative or friend in Africa for your education.
The students are usually really bright kids who don't want to waste their future in a nation ruled by corrupt govt. so they come here and work their way sometimes alone facing TONS of hardship before they enter their career. Trust me I know!</p>
<p>Are you African American? "</p>
<p>Yes. My mother was African AMerican, was the granddaugher of slaves, and the daughter of a teacher. My dad was black, an immigrant from Jamaica, and the son of a high school principal. My dad came over the US with the help of family members. After he became a dentist, he brought is siblings over.</p>
<p>What I said came from conversations with African and Caribbean immigrants who had had their way paid to the US by relatives and members of their towns in their home country. After they got an education here, yes, they were expected to give back -- big time. However, the sacrifices of their family members and hometown people were what got them here.</p>
<p>For instance, one of my friends, who is Nigerian, said his village chipped in to send him to the US because he was perceived to be the smartest young person in the village. He went to college in New England, and was too poor to even afford a winter coat. He had to wash dishes virtually fulltime in order to help support himself.</p>
<p>He told me that despite his hardships, he knew he could not fail in school. If he had not done well, he would have been such a failure that, as he put it, "I would have had to commit suicide."</p>
<p>Once he got his doctorate, however, he contributed lots of $ to his village.</p>