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Could we also stop with the crumbling public school trope? We are funding k12 schools at quite high levels, how they allocate that money is more likely the problem, along with the rules they implement. Based on funding alone, the District of Columbia schools should be producing geniuses. They are not. Catholic schools have produced better results with fewer resources for generations.

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Public school systems must take all students, including those with issues that make them expensive for the school. Catholic and other private schools can be selective in admission and can more easily expel students, so that they can leave the students with expensive issues to the public school systems.

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True that. And thatā€™s why I donā€™t complain about school taxes even though I sent my kids to private school through middle school (then to a large public HS). I do, however, scratch my head as the public school funding per pupil actually exceeds our private middle school tuition.

Iā€™m not following you, roycroftmom. Are you saying that my students have learning disabilities and terrible families, and that thatā€™s why they show up at college in this condition educationally and in terms of competitive drive? Because if thatā€™s what youā€™re asserting, youā€™ve been carefully picking your way through what Iā€™ve written and picking up only pieces you can assemble that story out of. It is not at all what Iā€™ve been saying.

As a separate matter, public universities (like all universities) have many more students with diagnosed and supported learning disabilities than they used to. Itā€™s an expensive proposition, but we do it, because (like public schools) we must. A LD by itself is not a determinant of success. You get LD students who drop out, LD students who get postdocs with Nobelists.

Once again, Iā€™m hearing you say ā€œforget those young people regardless of what they may actually be capable of, and move on to young people who have immediately better odds.ā€ If that is indeed your stance, then I donā€™t think we have anything else to talk about.

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Richard Brody is not a fan of what he spots as romanticization of itinerant peopleā€™s lives, one that deprives them of their own voices: ā€œNomadland,ā€ Reviewed: ChloĆ© Zhaoā€™s Nostalgic Portrait of Itinerant America | The New Yorker. Iā€™m not surprised to find that the directorā€™s dad is a big finance honcho and that she want to Holyoke and Tisch.

The best film representations of poor peopleā€™s lives in America that Iā€™ve seen, apart from Frontline series that are extremely difficult to watch, remain Michael Mooreā€™s movies, despite the obvious propaganda. Whatever tub heā€™s thumping, heā€™s still capturing the realities. Roger & Me remains the best and truest rust-belt documentary I know. Fishbowl was good, too (UK, not rust belt). Yeahā€¦Iā€™d look for the Frontline doc about the lives of poor children in America, which follows a family through homelessness, which in turn is common enough that itā€™s routine for school districts to have programs for homeless students. We didnā€™t used to. But we have to now because the kids have to move around often, frequently across school catchment-area lines, which means they bounce around curriculumwise and have trouble making progress. Itā€™s not so much a matter of hooking them up with social services as it is that the waiting lists for subsidized housing are often years long, and the parents have to remain in the area so that theyā€™re there when their number comes up. Itā€™s not a straightforward waitlist, either, because family situations are weighted ā€“ normally families with young children are up near the top, but if there are families with disabled children, for instance, those will cut in with priority.

Essentially, I say give those ā€œglimpse across the tracksā€ movies the Schindlerā€™s List test: if itā€™s pretty, youā€™re getting a fairy tale. If a romantic fairy tale is persuading you thatā€¦oh, dear, weā€™re back to Reagan, arenā€™t we. People are poor and homeless because they like it that way.

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It would not be surprising that a selective private school with higher achieving and academically motivated students without expensive issues and with supportive families had a basic cost of education that is lower on average than a public school that has to take everyone. Of course, the private school may have extra costs for extra services or whatever that it chooses to include, but for the same level of service, it could very well have lower costs.

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Smaller classes, teachers degreed in the topics they taught, better facilities, other than that the same :grinning:

Except my point was that perhaps we privileged elites shouldnā€™t be assuming we know what poor people want, let alone telling them what to do and how they ought to behave to meet the expectations of those with the ā€œelite society-defining jobsā€.

Itā€™s particularly ironic when college professors suggest that the hoi polloi canā€™t cope with modern society unless theyā€™ve gone to college. Instead Iā€™d suggest that itā€™s all a lot more complex than that, and there are no easy answers, certainly not just throwing hundreds of billions of dollars at subsidizing colleges for all.

I donā€™t think the OP mentioned she, her daughter, or students were Asian. However, I can see some similarities between several other threads in which some students have implied that being Asian was a key factor in not being accepted.

I think the issue is ā€œeliteā€ privates use hook + holistic admission practice rather than emphasize stats, which hurts Asian students as a whole more than other races, rather than direct discrimination. For example, the lawsuit you reference did show that Asian students had a lower overall admit rate than White students. However, when you control for hook status such that unhooked White kids are compared to unhooked Asian kids, and hooked vs hooked; then Asian kids have a higher admit rate than White since ALDC hooks are far more common among White applicants than Asian applicants.

Similarly if you control for stats such as comparing White unhooked kids with a particular SAT score to Asian unhooked kids with a particular SAT score, then White kids have a higher admit rate. However, if you control for the rest of the application, gender, docket location, and rest of factors admission readers are likely to consider; then it is too close to call. Whether it reaches statistical significance depends on seemingly minor difference in controls, such as whether you use an interaction variable for SES and race. The conclusion also varies by subgroup of Asian students. I doubt it would reach statistical significance for Asian female applicants or Asian applicants from the CA docket area. But unhooked not-low-SES Asian males from certain areas outside of CA might, depending on controls.

In any case, whether the above type of direct discrimination reaches statistical or significance would have little impact on the vast majority of applicants and is not likely to cause a particular decision to change from rejected to accepted. What is more likely to have an influence and more relevant to this thread is the legally accepted criteria used in the admission decisions. I mentioned ALDC hooks (Athlete, Legacy, Dean/Director list, and Children of faculty/staff). These hooks tend to favor wealthy White students. Asian students are not well represented in any of these ALDC hook groups. Harvard also boosts admission chances for URMs and lower SES applicants, which does not favor wealthy or White kids as a whole, but also doesnā€™t favor Asian kids as a whole. Focusing on non-stat criteria rather than emphasizing SAT/ACT score(s) further hurts Asian students as a whole.

This doesnā€™t mean that itā€™s impossible to be admitted if not ALDC, not URM, not lower SES, or not other hooked group. The majority of admitted students were White+Asian non-ALDC in the lawsuit sample. However, the odds may be longer for this group. In the recent class of 2025, Harvardā€™s overall admit rate was only 3.43%. The unhooked admit rate was likely under 3%. With an admit rate this low, itā€™s going to be long odds for the vast majority of well qualified applicants.

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Most of them? Because their odds of making an adult living otherwise are pretty tiny. (Search above for ā€œcredentialsā€ for explanations of why.) Also, because these are public universities, even though the proportion of public funding is small in the context of university budgets, the stateā€™s still forking over hundreds of millions of dollars a year to help run the place. The state generally insists that the university admit the stateā€™s young people. If a state has a lot of wealth, it can afford to turn the university into what used to be called a public Ivy, and play the highly-competitive game even for state residents while reserving a lot of seats for OOS students. Thatā€™s not most states, though, and their universities must admit whoever can pass some state-defined (low) bar.

Well - letā€™s back up a sec. My point is not, and has never been in this thread, that everyone going to Average State U should be or wants to be seeking that kind of work. Or for that matter that everyone at Elite U does, either.

My point was, and remains, that if you are the sort of person who can do that work, and would want to if you knew about it, or maybe does know and does want to do it, your odds are far, far better coming out of Elite U than they are coming out of State U, in part because tax support of State U and K12 has receded to the point that it must concentrate on maintaining a pulse and serving seriously unprepared students (not prepping you for ESD jobs), and in part because Elite U has captured and monetized pipes to those sorts of jobs, from internships on. Evidenced in such things as ā€œour go-to schools areā€ and less formal, but no less constricted, recruiting and networks.

My point is further that this is bad, because it becomes rarer and rarer for State U students to make it into those types of jobs, meaning that you have recirculating wealth and privilege at the top, and less and less mobility from below. Itā€™s bad because America depends on that mobility both to maintain its democracy and to live as an idea. We are not supposed to have a ruling class continuously serving as the architects of this society: the idea is that people of any background can rise all the way, if they are as able as most others at that level. The American Dream requires hard work, but should not require being born on the planet Krypton.

Now letā€™s go back to this sentence: ā€œā€¦if you are the sort of person who can do that work, and would want to if you knew about it, or maybe does know and does want to do it, your odds are far, far better coming out of Elite U than they are coming out of State Uā€¦ā€ Several people here would say, ā€œThen go to Elite U, and if you canā€™t get in, that means you arenā€™t fit.ā€ To which I say, ā€œThatā€™s incorrect, but letā€™s look at who gets into Elite U and who doesnā€™t.ā€ For that you can look at my post at the top of this thread, but essentially thereā€™s one admissions meeting point for State-U profile kids and Elite-U profile kids, and thatā€™s EA. In order for a student whoā€™s going on nothing but merit to get into Elite U, that kid has to (a) know about Elite U and want it and (b) be a spectacular worldbeater with credentials better than the majority of Elite-U admits. Thatā€™s EAā€¦to a point, since EA will likely require big fin aid. If the kid with no money/hooks is only as good as your average Elite-U type whose parents have high-six or seven digits flashing on the Profile, that kidā€™s going to Average State U.

From there we go to the Ginger Rogers story: Although your average Elite-U kid has full access to the ESD jobs pipeline (and will then have to demonstrate that theyā€™re good candidates: the point is the mouth of the pipe is sitting there), State-U kid gets access to ESD jobs only if, in the course of their State-U ed, they transform themselves independently into an EA-worthy person who can dance with Fred, but backwards and in heels ā€“ and can figure out on their own where a non-pipeline door is to bang on and say ā€œlet me in, Iā€™d like to speak with you please, yes I know Iā€™m inconvenient but Iā€™m totally worth your while,ā€ and do it successfully, which is one hell of a trick. Thatā€™s blossomā€™s State-U kid, the miracle who matters more than the school. If the State-U kid isnā€™t Ginger, isnā€™t Clark Kent, but does have the moxie/brights/etc. of average Elite-U kid? Too bad, what happens to a dream deferred, etc.

Next to that weā€™ve got the problem of the kid whoā€™s actually got Gingerā€™s brains and spark and dance moves, but ā€“ because no dough and a family of medical transcriptionists and electricians ā€“ wonā€™t even hear about the existence of ESD jobs till they get to college. And itā€™ll take a few years for them to notice that such jobs exist, like possibly into grad school, because nobody in their family or circle does any such thing. If that kid were at Elite U, theyā€™d be handed a menu of ESD jobs and Eliza Doolittled right up for them. At State U, though, this wonā€™t happen because it canā€™t happen: the institutionā€™s busy surviving month to month, not polishing up diamonds in the rough, brokering meetings, and pointing them in the right direction.

Again, once upon a time, this wasnā€™t a problem (for white men) in this country. If you had pretty terrific stuff upstairs, and drive, it didnā€™t matter if you didnā€™t know where to point it. Once you got to college, someone would collar you and shove you through a door, Average State U to ESD job. Elizabeth Warren saw those fellows streaming through and grabbed the door and went in that way before anyone could say ā€œhey, a girl.ā€ I went in that way myself. Sure, I had a fancy school-sponsored internship that led to a Big 8 ā€œso do you think youā€™d be interestedā€ conversation, but I was a Congressional staffer because one undergraduate spring I just showed up uninvited, over and over, at the office, saying ā€œput me to work, Iā€™ll work for free,ā€ till they relented, and then maintained the relationship with the office manager. You canā€™t do that now, even if you can afford to work for free (and fewer kids can): they have formal programs and security. The reach of formal programs and other forms of gating is tremendous, because you can sell that exclusivity to rich and ambitious parents. Big business.

So itā€™s about mobility, pipelines, whoā€™s groomed for those ESD jobs, who has access to them, and what that winds up meaning ā€“ for the kids, for the society. Obviously, not all students at either State U or Elite U are cut out for those jobs, or want them, whateverā€™s in their essays. Thatā€™s not at issue. But preferentially, that ESD-job Ouija pointerā€™s moved well over to the Elite-U corner of the board. And thatā€™s the problem Iā€™m lighting up. ā€œThe poors are happy anywayā€ is not an adequate response, though it sure has got history in this country.

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Incidentally, I donā€™t want to suggest that everyone at an Average State Flagship U is living in a motel or canā€™t read or canā€™t find a job on their own, etc. Itā€™s certainly not the case. Iā€™d say that in any group of students I work with, grad or undergrad, the majority are coming from getting-by families where the parents are employed and may or may not have gone to college. Maybe 20% will be from wealthy suburban families or have parents in professions. Now and then a student is homeless or has a crisis of similar magnitude. A few will already have had run-ins with the law; a few will have spent a year or more out of college. One or two will have kids. If undergrads, a handful will be immigrants or international students; if grads, more than a handful. Most will be there with parental approval, some with parental financial support, a few will have broken with their families in some sense to come to college. Itā€™s not unusual to have one whoā€™s transferred after running out of money or having a breakdown at a school with a much higher ranking. Depending on the class, a few might be athletes; about half of those are real students, and the others are being shepherded through. This is, as I say, the top end of average.

Many read, many seek self-improvement in various ways. Early marriage is common; so is refusal to date because the assumption is that their future lies somewhere else. What they lack is focus, because in general they havenā€™t seen the world they assume their educationā€™s taking them to, so they donā€™t know what to want or where to look for it. The school itself is not introducing them to that future, or not doing it well ā€“ you get stabs at networking events here and there, and for-credit internships, but itā€™s not a pipeline situation. So the thinking is very short-term ā€“ pay this bill, organize the credits, figure out how to go home in the middle of midterms because mom insists, get a campus job that pays a dollar an hour more ā€“ and the goal becomes the degree, and everything beyond that is a haze. In days when opportunity was more open to these students, and they came in generally better prepared, that lack of focus mattered, but not so much. Now, from my pov, itā€™s dangerous, esp when theyā€™re coming out with debt.

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You lost me on the EA connection. Why are state U and elite U profile kids only going to meet in EA rather than RD? Are you assuming that Elite-U profile kids do not apply during RD, so RD only includes State-U profile kids? Iā€™ve never heard of a college like this. For example, legacies are probably the ultimate ā€œElite Uā€ profile group. In the Harvard lawsuit sample, the REA pool had a 5% higher legacy rate than the RD pool. That 5% is indeed significant, but there were also plenty of legacies in RD. The non legacies and legacies meet in both pools.

If you only mean non-restricted EA, then MITā€™s class of 2024 had the following admit rates for EA vs RD ā€“ 7.4% admit rate EA vs 7.2% admit rate RD. If none of the ā€œElite Uā€ profile kids apply RD, then why does RD have a nearly an identical admit rate to EA?

Having completed 3 degrees at Stanford and taken classes at SUNY, RPI, U Wyoming, and UCSD; that was not my experience of how students find jobs at the respective colleges. I found my first job at a career fair. A variety of companies attended, I met some representatives at their booth, handed out some resumes, and received some call backs. The next stage was interviews. These interviews often took the full day and involved answering a long series of technical questions.

Almost all of the companies I interviewed with also attended similar career fairs at in-state publics, and interviewed students from those in-state publics in a similar way. Many of the interview events I attended had kids from a variety of schools and far more often than not, in-state public kids were more represented than ā€œeliteā€ private kids, even at companies that seem to considered particularly desirable on this forum. When I eventually accepted a job and began working, I shared an office with in state public kids who were hired at the same time for a near identical position. I continue to work side-by-side with in-state-public kids today, as well as quite a few who did their undergrad outside of the US. I even work with one guy who did his undergrad at University of Phoenix. In my field, few people care where you went to school after youā€™ve been out a few years. Instead they care about your job performance, ability, skillset, how useful you are to the company, etc.

However, I donā€™t claim to have an ā€œelite society defining job.ā€ Iā€™m still not sure what this entails? I believe the main field in which ā€œeliteā€ private U kids may have notable leg up is ā€œeliteā€ consulting and banking. And a large portion of Ivy grads do have a first job in this field. I wouldnā€™t say itā€™s exactly handed to them on platter. Itā€™s competitive, involves extensive interviews, many/most Ivy applicants donā€™t make the cut, etc. I think this exclusivity is a significant portion of the appeal. However, attending an Ivy usually gives a strong advantage.

These types of jobs often arenā€™t exactly a cushy place where wealthy kids can relax and reap simple benefits of their ā€œeliteā€ degree. There was a thread a few weeks ago about a survey in which junior analysts at Goldman Sachs reported an average of 98 hour weeks, with a median rating of 2 on a scale of 1-10 in job satisfaction and 1 in personal life satisfaction. Such jobs also donā€™t lead to what Iā€™d consider ā€œelite society definingā€ careers for the vast majority pursuing this path. This contributes to the salary stats I posted earlier, such as Colorado Mines kids reporting higher median salary than Harvard grads at age 34, and the other listed publics not being that far behind in portion of graduating lower SES kids who become wealthy adults.

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A menu? Good golly.

Itā€™s hard to be helpful here since the goal posts keep moving. Itā€™s not enough for a state U to try and educate the college-ready/qualified in its state, now they have to be prepared with a plethora of programs NOT just for a satisfying job leading to a career, but to anticipate EVERY type of outcome- the menu that points to Peace Corps, Med school, developing food/hunger policies at the UN, running for governor, running major corporations, concert-master at the Cleveland symphony, choreographer for the NYC ballet, etc.

First- this does not accurately describe what happens at elite Uā€™s. Plenty of grads of these schools end up as third grade language arts teachers (a fine outcome btw) despite the perception that everyone that goes to Yale ends up on the Supreme Court some day.

Second- the OPā€™s commentary is starting to pathologize the poor which strikes me as not helpful in trying to come up with fixes- or at least identifying what the problems are.

Third- what exactly is that menu and how the heck do I order from it???

We arenā€™t France where two or three elite institutions essentially run the country, run corporations, run the significant non-political institutions that matter. I get that the OP is discounting the impact that energy, drive, ambition and focus all have on outcomes- but if the OPā€™s D isnā€™t interested in a college experience with that level of intensity (OP, please prove me wrong but you consistently push back on this) how does being handed a menu (even if one existed) help?

Re: drug addiction- the links between poverty and addiction have a storied academic history. Go cherry pick whatever statistics you like. Or just read JD Vance. But in most parts of the country- even in the hollowed out regions where jobs are scarce and opportunity is limited- it is still the case that the majority of adults are NOT addicts. Yes, the percentages are scary. But there are still moms and dads who go to work, take care of their kids, manage to put gas in the car, show up for parent-teacher conferences. The notion that the only on-ramp for THOSE kids is a sub-par public U experience if they are lucky enough to get there because heck- grandma is an addict, what do you expect?

Nah, not buying it. Even in a third rate public school kids see teachers, administrators who function as role models of sorts. No, not a pipeline. But for sure exposure to the lives you claim these kids canā€™t imitate because they donā€™t know about them.

Iā€™d be happy to provide MY menu on how a non-elite college grad can- in fact- maximize their opportunities at college so they can have the best possible transition afterwards. I do it as a volunteer and the work is gratifying. But whether you are graduating from Columbia or CUNY, NOBODY can push you through that door. Youā€™ve got to walk through it. There is no substitute for getting your hands dirty. A kid from a disadvantaged family doesnā€™t realize that the job helping a professor edit a book is a better resume builder than going back to the HS job serving fries? They only need to be told that once. And when they realize that ā€œprestigious jobā€ pays $9/hour and fast food job pays $10/hour and that dollar is a meaningful loss- you only need to tell them once ā€œGo tell the professor that if he can snag you $10/hour youā€™ll take the job and knock the cover off the ballā€. Kid didnā€™t know that research grants are not managed the same way as fast food jobs with thousands of employees in a region, all earning the same salary. Thatā€™s ok. Tell them once. They donā€™t need their hand-held after that.

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My son saw the Frontline piece during health class and they were assigned a reflection piece about it. It really troubled him and we had lengthy discussions about it.

Agreed, OP has a very inaccurate view of what happens at and who attends elite universities.

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Regarding ā€œpublic ivyā€, that often has a lot to do with state size and geography. In states with highly concentrated populations (e.g. Arizona and Hawaii), the state flagship(s) can also function as the local broad-access commuter universities. Hence, a state may choose to make them large enough to fulfill both roles, and have them not be too selective. Since ā€œpublic ivyā€ status is related to admission selectivity, that knocks such state flagships out of ā€œpublic ivyā€ status.

A state with a larger number of smaller state universities may make more of a distinction between the flagship and other state universities, and students may do so as well, leading to a definite student preference order and increased admission selectivity at the flagship. If the state population is relatively large compared to the size of the state flagship (for example, California), then admission selectivity will be relatively high, increasing the likelihood of being seen as a ā€œpublic ivyā€.

Of course, state policy decisions do matter. For example, the overall quality of K-12 education in the state matters. So does in-state financial aid policy at the state universities, in terms of whether students from lower income families are financially able to attend them, including the flagship.

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@blossom, Iā€™ve actually addressed what youā€™re saying here. I canā€™t help you if youā€™re going to insist on sailing past what Iā€™m saying on a parallel track. Nobodyā€™s saying that Elite U is magical for everyone who shows up, or that everyone who comes out of there is off to the Supreme Court. And nobodyā€™s saying that State U is an unrelieved landscape of rotting Communist Polish concrete. Beyond that all I can do is refer you to how Iā€™ve broken that down above. Iā€™d suggest slowing down, being less prickly about a suggestion that someone else knows something youā€™re maybe not acquainted with, and considering the odds part of the conversation.

o/o

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ā€œIf the local U were as good as it was 18 years ago, and if it had maintained a similar price given inflation, I doubt weā€™d have put ourselves through all this. Years ago it was a bargain with excellent opportunities; after decades of state cuts itā€™s definitely not. But since Iā€™m a single mom with below-median HHI and her grades are good, sheā€™s been offered enough aid to make it a decent deal. (Thereā€™s no employee discount.) Since most of the aid is need-based, she wonā€™t have to panic about her grades in order to keep the scholarship, and will have freedom to roam around trying things, also enough money for a summer internship somewhere and a study-abroad summer, and unless things really go sideways sheā€™ll come out without debt. Thereā€™s an honors program and sheā€™s in it, but itā€™s pretty low-stress, too. Also, since sheā€™s not interested in STEM, doesnā€™t want to be an academic, and almost certainly wonā€™t have $150K+ for grad school, thereā€™s no reason for her to panic about grad school admissions. Sheā€™ll probably be going BA ā†’ work, and if she does go back for more school, the reason will probably be clearly vocational and possibly employer-funded.ā€

Doesnā€™t look like thereā€™s much consensus here, but from the original post, it seems like your daughter will have a good state U college education, no/little debt, no stress about grades, and study abroad opportunities. In most CC forums this is called a good outcome. So many issues have been raised in the discussions but there are no clear answers. Iā€™ve been walking this planet for a few years and what has remained constant in D or R administrations is that teachers are never paid enough, schools are never funded enough, students are hungry, parents are unemployed/unmarried and incapable of helping their own kids. In the big picture, university pipelines to elite jobs are probs not the highest priority.

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True, most people are not chasing the elite jobs. However, there is a common perception that todayā€™s young adults need more education to reach the same level of job and earnings that their parentsā€™ generation had, and the needed education is also much more expensive to the student. Some in the parentsā€™ generation may have ā€œworked their way through collegeā€ (i.e. earned enough from a high school graduate job to live on their own while paying for tuition and books at a nearby in-state public university), a much steeper task to do these days without parental subsidy (including continuing to live with parents).

All true, and I agree. I wonder though, if college (or CC) was free to all, what, if anything (other than student debt) would change. Would the free college experience move the needle, would we enter a new golden age, or would the debate just turn to - ā€œitā€™s free but the education is not that good compared to the elites who, after all, own all the employment pipelinesā€.