All ABET accredited engineering programs are going to have a written and oral communications requirement. Some schools will let you place out of them with AP credits, others, like Cornell will not.
Cornell certainly has a lot of diversity in CoE and on campus as a whole and no denying that Ithaca is stunningly beautiful.
My husband and I both went to Cornell. He was in engineering. We both had an amazing time there and loved it. Our daughter, didn’t apply after our official visit and didn’t think it was a fit for her at all.
While we both really appreciated all the out of college requirements and the more liberal arts focus, that didn’t appeal to our D at all. We had her map out her four year plan of study for her major and for her, there were just way too many courses that she wasn’t interested in. Other students find that to be a strength of the program. I would recommended looking at the details for your major and seeing if it’s a “yeah that’s awesome”, or a “OMG, never” ; )
Cornell also isn’t known for their co-ops so if that’s on your radar, a different school may be a better fit.
Cornell students don’t declare a major until the start of second semester sophomore year so many of the major specific clubs aren’t open to students until then. The plus is that it gives students to explore different areas of interests. The con is if you really know what you want you can’t get involved right away.
My daughter felt the vibe was too competitive (we had a very stressed out tour guide which didn’t help the perception) and not collaborative enough. That wasn’t our experience when we were there as students but it’s been a while.
I’d recommend reading the student newspapers and hanging out a bit on Reddit to see about getting a better sense. You can also call admissions and ask to be put in touch with a student in SWE (society of women engineering). They have an outreach committee and students will gladly, and honestly, talk to you about their experiences.
As for cost and “worth,” I echo the other posters who say to run the NPC and make sure it’s affordable WITHOUT loans. An engineering degree from any ABET program is going to be marketable and no, I don’t think Cornell is worth going into debt for. The majority of salary differences relate to cost of living areas, not the school where you graduated.