I have an Algebra professor who basically has the titular philosophy, everything is on the student, be distracted and you fail, pay attention and you pass. I fear however I am quickly becoming an anomaly to this, as I don’t really have a social life (I go to community college and commute to and fro, I don’t go out drinking or partying, my family lives 4000 miles away) but I still find myself staying up until 4am just trying to get the sheer amount of work we have done.
He keeps saying if we have any problems, come and talk to him, but lets just say he’s not the most… appealing guy you would want to talk to, huge chip on his shoulder and very judgmental. At the start of the semester he told everyone if you have kids don’t bother coming to class, since nothing can be a distraction and nothing is more important than school. I’m not sure he realizes not all of us get handouts from the government and some of us have to work if we want to stay there. Now I recently did some calculations and figured out I spend roughly 18 hours at work and 11 hours at school a week, the rest is mostly homework time but even then I find it to not be enough. I try to plan my week out, inputting dates and stuff on my calendar on my phone and work hours so not only I can see but my parents too,
I feel like the only way I can resolve this is talking to him, but I don’t think I can without going into a blind rage. He’s very much one of those passive aggressive types. For example when I expressed interest in re-taking a quiz, I asked if the quiz would be the same one we took in class, or if it would be a different one with similar problems. He responded “Well I guess you’ll just have to find out,” and laughed, to which I informed him I was going to need a straight answer, to which he told me it would be the latter. Another thing that also downright infuriated me was him, calling me out in the middle of a lecture, demanding to know what I was doing on my laptop. Now I know how I learn, by making connections to things, and in math this is the hardest to do since if the knowledge isn’t already there you are pretty much screwed, so I was getting up the powerpoint on the overhead projector on my laptop so I could see it better. I wouldn’t of minded if he pulled me aside after class or came up and talked to me to ask what I was doing as we did our work, but to call me out, by name, in the middle of a lecture?! Seriously?!
I am at a loss for what to do, I truly am, any suggestions would be appreciated, as it stands I have a 66% despite having not missed one assignment or class.