<p>Northwestern, I think most of us understood your situation. We were merely exploring "IF - THEN" scenarios. The beauty of a board like this! And sometimes we respond "generally" - so that other readers with similar questions might also benefit.</p>
<p>We all come from different backgrounds and experiences. To many of us, $30k is not an easy amount to come up with. For others, it's no biggee. (I remember being surprised at the number of folks who bought their teenagers cars, for example. Not something we could consider.) </p>
<p>I was the poster who made the "fighting" comment. I didn't think your D was fighting her instrument. I was merely responding to the idea that if a student WAS fighting an instrument, then it would be time to change. But that I didn't think that would be the case with a $15k instrument. (And in a situation where that were the case, then there were obviously other issues to explore.)</p>
<p>We can't make your decision for you, and I (for one) didn't intend to. We are only trying to give various perspectives. If you are comfortable with the idea, the price, the teacher, and the process, I'm sure your daughter won't be the only one with a cello of that quality. But neither should you feel that your daughter's future is doomed if you don't follow through. As you read on here, many students postpone upgrading until they are more mature players who know what they want and need, and are in a better position to buy wisely.</p>
<p>In our case, we were able to directly justify the cost of S's new (now former) instrument with the likely acceptances and scholarships he would get that would offset it, largely from the added confidence he would get playing on a responsive instrument.</p>
<p>My S played in a trio with a violinist whose instrument cost something like $50k. (They were fairly secretive about the price; afraid of theft, I think. But the mother hovered; continually afraid her D would damage or lose it.) The kids were in high school. The girl had planned to major in violin, but wasn't accepted at any of the conservatories she applied to. (She was quite good - concert master of our local youth orchestra; I don't know why she wasn't accepted.) She ended up going to school locally for violin, but several years into it, she switched her major to pharmacy. I know she will play violin for the rest of her life, and she is teaching privately along with her pharmacy career. If she didn't have an expensive instrument, I know her parents would have always wondered if it were their fault for not providing it. So they gave it their best shot. But I think she felt enormous pressure, and felt a lot of guilt/obligation to pursue music. My point is, even with an expensive instrument, there are no guarantees. If you are comfortable with buying your D a cello with "no strings attached" (for your daughter, not the cello!), go for it!</p>
<p>Good luck with whatever you decide, and good luck to your daughter!</p>