<p>It worries me that some people think that it’s the end of the world if they don’t get into at least one Ivy League. And as I say that, I have to swallow my own words: I was DYING to go to Harvard…but I’m so much happier at my second choice, and I’m literally grateful I did not get in, because this past year has just been so completely magical. My first year of college was the greatest year of my life.</p>
<p>Ivy League schools are not that different from the other top universities (Duke, Emory, University of Virginia, Georgetown, Stanford, and so on) or liberal arts colleges (Williams, Amherst, Davidson, Harverford, etc.) in the nation. Keep in mind that plenty of students who get in and attend these schools often actually turned down Ivy offers. As for Ivy League Admissions? At any Harvard info session, you will be told that up to 90% of Harvard applicants are qualified. That means that once the “unqualified” applicants have been chucked out, it’s primarily up to chance and desirable demographics…or sometimes one very small thing that makes you stand out against the backdrop of thousands of other applicants. I’m not saying it’s not “special” to be accepted at an Ivy…it’s incredible! It’s such an accomplishment, and you’re literally one in thousands! But I’m saying it can even be a positive thing to end up elsewhere. </p>
<p>It’s a name thing. And if you’re just looking at these schools for their names, you might end up incredibly unhappy matriculating at any one of them. You need to physically go visit each of these schools, sit in on classes, take tours, and maybe even spend the night. You need to see what the students are like. You have to suspend your previous admiration for any school and take it for what it is when you’re there.</p>
<p>Expect a lot from yourself, do your best, and of course try for the Ivies…but know that other tops school are not just “the next best thing”: they’re on the same page.</p>
<p>As for state schools like UFlorida? They can be pretty incredible, too. The experience is what counts. You only live once. You should go to the school that seems like YOUR best match. Ignore prestige. Try to focus on what will make you happy with a school, again, ignoring prestige. Because when you get there, prestige melts…you see that the people there are real people. If someone is too absorbed in the prestige of their institution, these real people are not likely to think much of that snob. </p>
<p>Is it too late for you? No, it rarely is. 17/581? That’s outstanding. Often the top 20 ranks are all within tenths of a GPA point away from each other. Junior year? This is your most important year…they’re less concerned with how you’ve done freshman and sophomore year, and if anything, a massive improvement from your first two years into your second two is just as impressive as making all A+'s straight through all four years.</p>
<p>Sort of what Ace is saying: Do your best. </p>
<p>And then just hope for the best.</p>