@panpacific fair enough. I don’t disagree, and I’m not always above that kind of self-indulgence. agreed, should have been a “nothing to see here folks” response and move on.
frankly, with as much conversation policing that happens here, I’m surprised that the mods don’t just kill threads like this. i mean, seriously, life “ruined”? that can as you said only be one of two things, either one of which deserves the cannon.
Or the OP could be the archetypal immigrant who comes from a country which requires attending a handful of national universities which enable the path to a decent job, and expects child to support the parents in old age.
“Or the OP could be the archetypal immigrant who comes from a country which requires attending a handful of national universities which enable the path to a decent job, and expects child to support the parents in old age.”
Oh, blame it on the immigrants. 
Joking aside, doubtful. Her/His/Its command of English is pretty solid …I don’t see it.
I’m guessing this is just “one of those kids.”
MODERATOR’S NOTE
I think we’ve exhausted this conversation. The OP has not returned despite having been asked several questions for clarification. At this point, users are just speculating on OP’s motivation/intent. Closing.