<p>@bookreader: I don’t feel like the other schools fit me as well as Reed does (St. John’s comes the closest, but their aid is worse: Parent PLUS loans AND off campus employment as well as the other plethora of loans), and one of the main requirements for my college was the atmosphere and campus feel. However right now I don’t really care that much about that because my finances are pretty much dictating where I’m going. </p>
<p>Community college in California is actually really great, so I’m not too worried about going there. I’d be saving a lot more money living with my parents (they manage to get a lot of food and clothes for free, whilst at college that’s not the case) and transferring into college as a sophomore, hopefully my parents smart enough to move their money elsewhere (offshore accounts maybe? they’d probably say no).</p>
<p>@mtpaper: Thank you!</p>
<p>@mom2collegekids: My parents didn’t know that until I told them they had to help me take out the loans because I have no credit (just turned 18). They kept telling me that I’d have to do everything myself, and that they wouldn’t help me. Now that they understand, they want me to go to a good college that I love (Reed) but are reluctant to have me accumulate so much debt. They are willing to co-sign though. </p>
<p>UCD gave me $5K is Stafford Subsidized and $5K in Stafford Unsubsidized. Luckily I got $10K in Cal Grants, but I still have to pay some loans. I think the rest was covered in Pell grants and other gov’t grants that I don’t have to pay back. My baseline cost though is $3500 a year, not including those Stafford loans.</p>
<p>I’m not sure yet how much my parents are willing to pay, but $10-$15 per year would be okay for them I guess. They don’t tell me how much they have saved up, but I think it’s about $200K or so. </p>
<p>I go to a charter school, so it’s super small and brand spanking new. I’m the first class to go there, so the college process was a bit of a testing process. I regret not applying to state schools (stupid me, denouncing them) because I probably would have gotten some merit scholarships and could have easily paid for those schools. </p>
<p>@pea: I definitely included this in the letter, because if my parents were young, had jobs, and could speak English better (or at all, which my dad can’t, making it harder for him to get a job at 62), I would be more willing to take on $130K in debt. But that’s not the case, so I can’t.</p>
<p>@calmom: My EFC was definitely 0 on the FAFSA, but on the CSS profile I think that differed a lot. My parents were pretty smart, they paid off our house mortgage a long time ago. My mom is pretty astute for someone who doesn’t speak English that well, sinking a lot of her money into stock portfolios and our house, but I guess that didn’t help too much. My parents owe nothing, and I don’t know how much my parents actually have but if I think $450-500 would be right around the ballpark of the amount of assets we have (maybe less, unless the real estate values perk up). They definitely can spare $10K for school for me, probably a little bit more. </p>
<p>Unless Reed gives me more aid, I think my most plausible choices are UCD and comm. college. </p>
<p>UCD gave me subsidized and unsubsidized, but I’m pretty sure I can just ask my parents to pay off the $10K of Stafford loans they gave me in addition to the expected family contribution of $3500. The only place that offered me Parent PLUS loans was St. John’s, but I’m not even considering them because they gave me pretty meager FA too. I’ve ■■■■■■■ on the FA board enough to know NOT to take PLUS loans, which is why I’m staying far away from St. John’s.</p>
<p>I personally don’t think I’ll fit in entirely in Davis because I just don’t get a vibe from it. I know I shouldn’t be emotional about the college decision, but if I’m not happy on a college campus, I won’t do as well. I wanted a place more city-like but still enclosed, and Reed is in Portland, so that works. I’ve visited UCD once, but it is a bit too rural for my preferences, though I don’t dislike it. As for name recognition, I really don’t care. I didn’t choose my colleges based on prestige, but more for the type of learning that happens, which is why I applied to University of Chicago, Reed, St. John’s, etc. </p>
<p>I also wanted smaller classes, which I know I’d get at St. John’s and Reed and most of the other schools I applied to, but not sure if I’d totally get that at UCD. I like UCD, but I don’t know if I am in love with it like I am with UoC (waitlist). </p>
<p>@happymomof1: Thank you for the link! I think community college would be the best place for me to start as well, but the only problem I can find is the amount of people who apply for classes. If I do decide to go to CC, I’d have to enroll in classes on May 2nd because the competition for seats in classes is fierce in the Bay Area CCs (therefore huge classes, which I really dislike). Would a gap year entail me deferring to a college or just not going at all?</p>
<p>@Mintwood: I definitely touched on the fact that my parents are constantly mistaken for my grandparents and nearing retirement, and the fact that the bank account money is for retirement and rainy days (we’ve had quite of a few of those this year), so they shouldn’t factor the $200K or so saved up as college fund money. My mom fortunately turned my $20K or so college fund into a 529 Education fund right before we did the FAFSA and CSS profile so the schools couldn’t force me to contribute some even ungodlier amount of money.</p>
<p>NEW QUESTION:</p>
<p>Could I defer admission to Reed for a year, study at a community college for the next year, and then go to Reed as a sophomore (after sorting out my finances and transferring credits)? I’m think of this as my most appealing plan (or otherwise transferring to UoC), because UCD is a nice place, but I don’t think it’s a nice fit for me.</p>