<p>@calmom: I’m pretty sure they’ll understand (and I wrote in my letter) that my dad getting a job in the next four years is quite unlikely. He works for petty cash here and there, but it’s not a stable paycheck. </p>
<p>I totally understand that having debt early on when I start college will only make the debt worse once I go to grad school. However, Reed has helped so much with that burden that I won’t have to borrow any money except for the $2500 in Stafford and Perkins Loans offered in my Reed FA. My parents can pay the $11K out of pocket with no worries about becoming homeless once they are retired.</p>
<p>I’m pretty sure Reed’s policy is to keep the FA award the same for all four years if my parents don’t win the lottery or get a really high paying job within the next four years (it would take a “turning water into wine” miracle for either of those to happen), but I will call the FA office tomorrow just to be sure. </p>
<p>My mom’s condition is persistent, and doesn’t seem like it will ever get better. She’s on permanent disability, and so far her disability checks are what our main income is. My dad is in his 60s, has been in America for 20 years, and can barely speak a lick of English (for the lack of trying and complacency), so I’m pretty sure his lackadaisical self will keep relying on unemployment checks until they run out. I’m pretty sure my situation won’t change in the next four years, probably except for the annual income dropping once the unemployment checks stop coming. When my dad does get a job again (probably at McD’s or another fast food place that doesn’t mind non-English speaking workers), I’m going to ask him to put 75% of his checks into the IRA he has. </p>
<p>Chinese people aren’t apt to talk so openly about their finances with each other (I guess it’s the keeping up with the Jones mentality), but I’m sure they have their own ways of minimizing their EFC. </p>
<p>I didn’t necessarily look at specific cities to single out schools that are in the vicinity just because of the location per se, but more so to do with the academic programs and campus area first, then location to a big city second. I’m definitely not a fan of NYU/GW like campuses, but want a school with an enclosed campus that is near a big city but not in it.I never looked at Univ. of Portland b/c I wanted a place w/ a smaller incoming class, either a LAC or had a LAC feel to it (like University of Chicago). I applied all over the place:Fordham (NYC), WashU (St. Louis, though it’s just not as accessible of a city as San Fran or Portland is), Tulane (New Orleans), UC Davis (well, I visited and liked it, but Sac. isn’t as big as SF), Yale (New Haven, Hartford), Brown (Providence), UoC (Chicago), St. John’s College (Santa Fe, but I’m ignorant of how metropolitan it is), and UCLA. I’m a city girl who likes to return home to suburbia. </p>
<p>Thank you all the moms, pops, students, and CC people for providing me with so much information and opinions to help me make a decision! I hope Reed will be my academically challenging cloud 9 :D</p>