Is there anyway to become "smarter"?

<p>Throughout high school, I've had a lot of highs and lows on my self-esteem. In middle school, I remembered people calling me smart and stuff like that and being at the top of my class. Now that I'm in high school, I am far from what people call "smart". I go to a competitive school with mostly Asians and there are a lot of people smarter than me. I guess I wouldn't be called dumb and definitely not average as I have a 3.88 gpa with around 6 AP classes total (from soph+junior) but I am definitely not one of those people acing everything with a 4.0 gpa, 2300+ SAT, national awards yada, yada, yada. I'm not a lazy person, I mean, I always study hard for tests.</p>

<p>Initially, I came to the conclusion that those people are only smart because they studied the material ahead for everything or went to prep classes. I was always under the belief that those people aren't really smarter than me, they probably just worked harder. My logic was simply that a very very small amount of the population are actually geniuses. So all those so call "geniuses" were just really hard workers. However, I really have been doubting that now. One reason is that some "slackers" from middle school are getting higher grades than me. Some of them don't even really study all all. One time, I went all out for a Spanish quiz to see if I could really beat the person. I got an 80 and he got a 100. I guess one reason I haven't tried as hard is because I feel rather inferior to all my friends and can't see the point, because at the end, I'll still get a lower score.</p>

<p>Another thing that has really hurt my self-esteem was that I didn't win as I had expected on some competitions. I studied my butt off, even ditchng first and second period the day of the competition to get more studying crammed in. I was aiming for top 50 in the competition but after looking at my answers, I definitely won't be even close to making it. What really crushed me was that I gave my full out, and I could not achieve what I wanted. I also knew that even if I had unlimited time, I could never beat those people getting first or second place.</p>

<p>So all in all, is there a way to become "smarter"? Is there a specific person who could possibly help me with this? Perhaps an educational psychologists? Is my theory that everyone is born with almost the same potential but that some just work harder correct? Or are some born just being talented? If yes, do I not have any hope left?</p>

<p>Lose your inferiority complex. Thoughts of inferiority will be the number one thing holding you back in this life. I have a 3.7 GPA and I’m ranked 25th in my class. One of my closest friends is the valedictorian and she has a 4.1+ GPA and never, ever do I sit back and think “D*mn, she’s so much smarter than me.” Don’t look at your accomplishments in the context of others. Realize that intelligence can not be summarized in a grade point average or a class ranking. Just keep trying your best.</p>

<p>Intelligence is nature and nurture. Some of it is biological and some of it is environmental. </p>

<p>Intelligence is not your problem, a 3.88 GPA and 6 AP’s is fantastic! You shouldn’t hurt your self-esteem like this. Maybe it is stress that is getting to you…</p>

<p>Also, a fantastic way to “be smarter” (perform better), is to get a full 8-10 hours of sleep every night. You would be surprised what a combination of sleep and lack of stress can do to your memory…</p>

<p>Eh. Some people are born with greater potential than others, are put into more enriching environments than others, etc.</p>

<p>What I see as the most important thing that determines later intelligence is having a strong motivation to learn, today. Kids who love to read, for example, turn out to have great English skills later on - and not because they studied. So it’s not just the IQ you’re “born” with, but also your motivation to learn.</p>

<p>It’s also important to pay attention to learning intelligently. Think about your studying practices and think about how they can be improved to be more efficient and more effective. Studying more doesn’t necessarily mean studying better. </p>

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<p>Ah yes, the inferiority complex, because everyone who isn’t the brightest lightbulb in the box tells you you’re so smart, when in reality, you might not be the smartest, but they think you are, because they aren’t. In reality, most people don’t have a 4.0 UW, take millions of AP classes, and excel in everything they do. You are smarter than average, so I wouldn’t worry. </p>

<p>While everyone is good at something, not everyone can be incredibly smart in academics. For some reason, it just doesn’t click with them. Doesn’t mean they aren’t smart though, the might do well in vocational fields (like mechanic, construction, etc.). Others are smart in academics but won’t be perfect…I’m a great students when it comes to history and English, but just don’t do well at all in math. Doesn’t mean I’m a horrible student, just not adept at that field. Just come to terms with the fact that just because you aren’t a 4.0 student, doesn’t mean you aren’t a great student, can’t do well, etc.</p>

<p>My philosophical post of the month.</p>

<p>“I was always under the belief that those people aren’t really smarter than me, they probably just worked harder. My logic was simply that a very very small amount of the population are actually geniuses.”</p>

<p>Actual geniuses are rare pretty much by definition - that’s what makes them geniuses.<br>
Someone doesn’t need to be a genius to be smarter than you. :D</p>

<p>In any case, it doesn’t matter. Worrying about whether other people are smarter than you is superficial and unnecessary. </p>

<p>“Is my theory that everyone is born with almost the same potential but that some just work harder correct?”</p>

<p>No, that’s far too idealistic.
But the opposite isn’t true either, and both ideas are just cop-outs: either you tell yourself you’re just as smart as other people but don’t work as hard, or you tell yourself that you don’t have to work hard because other people always accomplish more than you and there’s nothing you can do about it. And none of it is true.</p>

<p>We slackers will get punished in college. You have to realize that later on in life we won’t have developed the right study habits, and people like you will have already done that. I might be beating a lot of my friends now who think I’m “smart”, but in reality they’re going to end up much more successful than I will.</p>

<p>Keep up the good work, and don’t let stress get to you. The only person you should be competing with is yourself. Make yourself proud.</p>

<p>Doing well in HS is more a function of effort. Those who are not as smart can compensate with effort so there is no way to tell who is smarter. Chances are that you are not the smartest person in class, which is what you are discovering. But again with additional effort it is possible to compensate. The answer is effort, effort & effort.</p>

<p>Get over it because there will always be someone smarter than you are. However, I have found that the smartest people are often not as successful in life as those who have had to work harder for their successes. There are many attributes that just as valuable, if not more, than intelligence. Perseverance, curiosity, creativity, humor, social skills…a combination of some of these traits along with even average intelligence can result in a very successful individual.</p>

<p>How to Be Smarterer by Niquii77
In order to be smarter than the not-so-average bear one must:
• not looketh over at thy neighbor

  • Don’t compare yourself to others. You’re not like them. They’re not like you. You have your goals. They have theirs. You guys are different! You may have to work harder, but that is ok. *
    • accept that you are dumb
  • You do dumb things. I do dumb things. He, she we do dumb things. There is nothing wrong with being dumb. (It’s when you’re all around dumb where the trouble starts…)*
    •accept that you are smart
  • Replace “dumb” in above advice with “smart”.*
    • grow some balls
    Goodness sakes. Grow some huges ones! Bedazzle them if you want! You basically want your imaginary balls to be so wonderfully spectacular that you just have to show them off! (Don’t take this in a literal sense.) Take pride in your accomplishments. Pat yourself on the back one in awhile. Don’t stop looking forward.</p>

<p>One thing to take from this post is to not compare yourself to others. You don’t know what they have been through.</p>

<p>Or you could just take Adderall</p>

<p>School is artificially difficult because you’re not allowed to learn at your own pace. Academic competitions are likewise.</p>

<p>Here’s an exercise: play [QWOP[/url</a>]. When (not if, but when) you fail spectacularly, ask yourself “Would it help me to have a better understanding of the mechanics of human gait?” Which is an obvious “no” because you could easily produce a successful running pattern by looking at a timeline, placing key-ups and key-downs at certain points on it, and playing a simulation to see where you need to make minute timing changes by moving the key-ups and key-downs a few notches in the right direction.</p>

<p>QWOP is (intentionally) designed poorly because [url=&lt;a href=“http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/FakeDifficulty]its”&gt;http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/FakeDifficulty]its</a> difficulty is fake](<a href=“http://www.foddy.net/Athletics.html]QWOP[/url”>QWOP). It doesn’t require creative puzzle-solving, strategy, or even mastery of a rich time-sensitive system that requires you to exploit many aspects (like combat in games). It just requires an obscure muscle coordination that has nothing to do with anything outside the game’s bizarre design.</p>

<p>Now imagine that you have the opportunity to take a class arbitrarily many times, each time spending exactly as many weeks on it as you need (meaning less and less each time), until you get an A. Even if the tests, paper topics, etc. are different each time (still covering the same range of material), they’re easier each time because, without even realizing it, you’ve had more time to digest everything mentally and absorb it more thoroughly.</p>

<p>School is designed poorly because its difficulty is also fake. Consider the most obvious example: midterms. If a class has one midterm worth 30% of the grade and you score 50% on it, it doesn’t matter if you study enough between then and the final to get 100% on a similar midterm; you’ll still be fighting for a B in the class.</p>

<p>Another obvious example is the transcript. If you have a bad Algebra I teacher resulting in a D in the class due to poor comprehension (not due to very difficult exams), the D will haunt you for the rest of high school. It doesn’t matter if everything eventually clicks when you’re in Algebra II and you could go back and ace all the Algebra I assignments and tests with ease; your transcript still says bad things about you by virtue of saying bad things about your past self. There are ways of patching over that problem like holistic college admissions or GPAs that omit freshman grades, but those just count as people doing their best to work within a flawed system rather than actual solutions, and you’ll just go through the same thing again with grades in college classes.</p>

<p>This principle is so damn universal it even applies to the things we do for fun. I used to compete in speech and debate and, every single time I walked out of a room after round that didn’t go so well, my mind was immediately flooded with ways I could have improved. It wasn’t my argumentation skill, research, or intelligence. It was that the brain literally decreases bloodflow to areas responsible for those skills when someone gets up in front of a crowd and automatically goes into defense mode. That’s why the number one fear is of public speaking, ahead of death, claustrophobia, arachnophobia, and even the more general fear of failure.</p>

<p>And is there really so much difference between altering the cerebral bloodflow when performance is demanded, and forcing the brain to learn x, y, and z in that order even though it would be easier to learn y, z, then x?</p>

<p>So the question is really 10% “How can I become smarter?” and 90% “How can I apply my smartness more effectively?” The answer is to take more time to refine yourself. Turn mistakes into lessons instead of bad grades. It’s a great reason to homeschool. I actually took two “sophomore years” and graduated high school a year later than planned, but we handled it by writing the original 10th grade as 9th grade, the original 9th as 8th, etc. It’s a wonderful feeling to play the game by your own rules.</p>

<p>For the other 10%, sometimes you really are learning something at the right pace, purely because you enjoy learning it, and it just feels beyond you. I’m going through that misery, as it’s been a year since I last took a math class but I’m still studying mathematics at my own interest, so I have nothing external to blame for the times when I read something, don’t get it, come back to it a week later, and still don’t get it. I go through overwhelming self-doubt and self-worth crisis every day in a self-destructive cycle because of it, so I recognize that “How can I become smarter?” has no easy answer. The question is the gateway into the vast realm of educational psychology and there are many ways to help yourself think more clearly, like eating healthy, exercising, trying different times of the day, etc. It takes enormous discipline in order to find out what works for you and adopt it into your lifestyle.</p>

<p>You know, being smart can only get you far enough. Effort is the other big part of the equation, in fact probably 75% of how successful you are is based on if you put in a lot of effort or you’re just a lazy bum. You can still be successful at things if you are not a prodigy and put in effort.</p>

<p>BUT STILL, I think you’re problem is that you can’t accept the fact that some people will always be one step better than you at something. 3.8 is still VERY VERY good, if you don’t get into some Ivy league ******** you’ll still go to a good school, and you’ll get a good job as long as you put in effort.</p>

<p>^^ The best post of the year goes to Halogen.</p>

<p>Also, it’s ironic that you mentioned QWOP because when you lose it says “everybody’s a winner” hahaha</p>

<p>Whoa! A lot more responses than I expected. </p>

<p>@gnastygnorc I am totally fine with not being the best. As my dad used to tell me, “If you think you are the tallest mountain, there will always be another one taller than you”. But the problem is, I didn’t expect myself to “lose out” to others that soon. I mean, I don’t really care if I wasn’t the top 5 smartest students but I expected myself to be around top 30 at my school. With my gpa, I don’t think that’s going to happen. And I’m also worried about college, where everyone’s grade is relative to others. How will I survive with a good gpa if I’m not at the top of my class? Then again, maybe its all the pressure I’m getting. My parents sort of expect me to get into AT LEAST Berkeley or LA since all of my cousins go to either one of them. </p>

<p>For people telling me to lose my inferiority complex, I never had one until reality hit me hard. As a matter of fact, I entered my sophomore year with a very optimistic mindset. Even after taking major damage to my gpa, I entered my junior year still with a positive mindset. However, reality is really starting to get to me now…</p>

<p>Intelligence allows you to process information faster but it doesn’t make up for a lack of knowledge in a subject.</p>

<p>Knowledge is necessary to make inferences about problems and situations that you haven’t been in before. There are an infinite number of ways to approach any problem so one of the more practical ways to prune down the set of actions to try is by making inferences based off of the information you have accumulated. For example, knowing calculus would save you a lot of time for taking a derivative of a function rather than having to re-derive calculus to solve the problem. </p>

<p>Since there are an infinite number of ways to approach any problem, intelligence alone isn’t satisfactory. No matter how intelligent someone is, he or she won’t be able to iterate through all possible actions. In fact, almost any set of actions less than a couple thousand is too complicated in most cases, so pruning the set of things to try is extremely important. Hence, learning more is essential.</p>