<p>I am staying on the Yale waitlist, and will be sending a second (previously, I was deferred) update letter, and two more recommendations (one of them very original).</p>
<p>I cannot, however, promise that I will attend Yale if finally accepted (I also got into Stanford). I honestly don't know what I would do if I had the choice.</p>
<p>yes...just don't write in your letter that it's your first choice that would be unethical</p>
<p>but otherwise i've read of cases like, "192 were admitted off the waitlist and of those 148 chose to attend" it's not unheard of to turn down a waitlist admit</p>
<p>(and even if you were to say it's your first choice, you're not really bound to it by law, but whatever...that's up to you...i doubt they read the letters anyway)</p>
<p>as long as you don't say anything like "if admitted I will matriculate" I don't see why you would have a problem. I have 3 schools I've been waitlisted on, and there is a clear hierarchy for them to me.</p>
<p>I talked to an admit officer, and this may be just hearsay or exaggeration, but apparently last year they only tapped 8 people off the waitlist. I'm sure there's a solid, verfiable number, but I can't find one at the moment to back up her statement. Maybe she was just talking about our state?</p>