<p>I understand that the death of a family member is often written about in peoples' essays.
But my great-grandmother died a few hours ago, and it was the first death I have had to experience in my life so far.
She is two (or three?) generations from me, so I am not sure if I can consider her as a "close relative."
She wasn't even significant to me much, but her death was. So can I still write about that?
It impacted my view of family and culture and how I never cared nor wanted to until now...</p>
<p>I've only ever watched others suffer through deaths of loved ones, but it never occured to me how tragic things are when it actually happens to one of mine...</p>
<p>Thank you for your advice.</p>