Here is my situation-updated from previous posts to incorporate both of the sports I play:
An Ivy League school coaching staff said they would support my application in admissions if I wanted to go there, but I wouldn’t get much/any playing time. (I have a high academic index and father went there so they are kind of taking advantage of my academic strengths rather than my athletic ones). It’s also a D1 program, the team is one of the top teams the nation, and a lot of the players take the sport very very seriously. People are on the olympic team at this school. I am definitely not going to be on the olympic team. I want to be successful in the future and don’t want to major in my sport. But because of how time consuming the sport is, it would be very difficult to be an engineering major (which I want to be). However, if I were to commit, the chances of getting into this school with support from coaches increase drastically. But I don’t want to be stuck in a sport I’m not super passionate about, and I don’t want to get in and then quit.
I also play another sport (which I like a lot more), and the MIT coach is interested in me for that sport. It’s a D3 team. Honestly, I’d rather play D3 because it’s more for the love of the game than playing D1. I’d see playing time–if I were to get in. Coach’s support at MIT helps, but from what I hear, it definitely doesn’t help as much as Ivy league coach’s support. That’s the dilemma. Getting in.
Should I take the route of highest probability and commit to a prestigious Ivy league school where I’d be an accessory player on the team, or do I gamble and shoot for MIT where the student-athlete aspect of life appeals to me more?
My parents are set on me applying to the ivy league school because they want me to use the sport to get in then quit. What life lesson would that be teaching me? Whenever I bring up MIT they say “you don’t want that” and “if you don’t choose this ivy league school you’re making a big mistake”. A part of me feels like if I don’t go with the ivy league school I am wasting a great opportunity, but another part of me feels like I don’t want to be unhappy playing a sport I’m not 100% passionate about at such a demanding level.
My scores are on point with the MIT admissions statistics if that makes any difference. 35 ACT, 800 on Math subject test, waiting for the score for my science test.
Any advice, wise words or comments would be appreciated.