<p>There is some misunderstanding of introverts here (and elsewhere), IMO. On MBTI I am on the introverted side (and NTJ; these are actually stronger than my I, and my J is alllllllll the way). On DiSC, I’m a high C (actually, high D and S also) and an extremely low i (the descriptors it gave my personality for i were things like reticent, aloof, etc)</p>
<p>Being an introvert doesn’t mean you don’t want to interact with people. It means that you interact when it is needed, but not for the sake of interaction. Extroverts can find going to a club to be very relaxing and a chance to “let loose” while an introvert finds the same situation stressful and uncomfortable. Introverts are happy to read a book or hang out with a small group of friends, while an extrovert might find that same activity stressful for them because there isn’t enough “going on.” Extroverted people make the most “noise” so it seems like they are the most common, when in reality this is the perception because they are the most dominant, and the introverts are happier that way.</p>
<p>Extroverts go to meetings and talk for an hour without accomplishing anything, while the introvert sits there painfully waiting for someone to “actually do work” and leave the meeting cursing that an hour of their productive work time was wasted by others. Introverts pipe up when they have something to say, but are unlikely to think out loud like extroverts do.</p>
<p>My field (I work as an analyst, basically writing reports and giving presentations on happenings around the world) is full of introverts. I work on a team of less than 10, and I think all but perhaps one or two of us are introverts (based on observation). We mostly do our own thing, and we talk or bounce ideas around when we want to. When our team has meetings, they are announced ahead of time and there are specific expectations of what each person is bringing to the meeting, so it is more of a touch base time where we can get questions answered or ask for some thoughts from the group, not a spend 1-2 hours talking in circles time.</p>
<p>You can do anything as an introvert. Personally, I think it is important to understand your personality and its strengths and weaknesses in various situations. Then you know how to interact better in different situations to maximize your strengths based on the group you are with and minimize the parts of your personality that would be less constructive. For example, since I am all the way on the J side of MBTI, I know that I always make decisions based on logic at the expense of feelings. So, if I am aware that I think like this, hopefully I can try to take personal feelings into account in certain situations, and understand that thinking “your personal feelings are ridiculous right now; they don’t reflect reality at all” might only make the situation worse, even if it is true.</p>
<p>In meeting situations, it is important for introverts to make an effort to make sure they are heard when they have good ideas. It is important for the extroverts to make a point to allow the introverts to speak, as introverts are less to interrupt and interject their ideas. It is important for extroverts to not assume that an introvert not sharing any ideas at a certain point in time means they aren’t mentally involved in the discussion, but rather they don’t think they have anything productive to add. It is important for introverts to ask questions, rather than hoping that the answer or clarification they are looking for will come through at some point if they wait long enough.</p>