<p>Hey. I am currently a freshman at UCLA. I am kind of on the fence about the whole fraternity thing. Last night I went to a several fraternities and by and large the guys seemed like the type of guys I would be friends with. I also like going to parties and meeting girls. </p>
<p>The reason I am hesitant is because I want to make schoolwork my number one priority at UCLA. This doesn't mean I want to shut myself in my room 24 hours a day studying, but I don't want to be forced to neglect my schoolwork by my obligation to a fraternity.</p>
<p>How laid back is it? Will I be able to skip some events if I have stuff to do? Thanks.</p>