While this is true, I work with the “masses” at a statistically average public high school. For many of these kids, loans are the only way to have certain opportunities for their future. My own dh is one who benefited from 5 digit loans back in our era. We lived frugally for 5 years paying it back and have reaped the benefits ever since. Without the opportunity for the loans there’s no way he’d be where he’s at now as owner of his company.
When I see former students having troubles post high school, it’s rarely a surprise (unless they got hooked on drugs somewhere down the line). People skills are quite often the culprit TBH. Some humans seem to instinctively know how to interact with each other or are at least open to learning how to do so, then there are the others. I know some with college degrees who have problems finding or keeping jobs even in a terrific economy. It’s not a surprise at all that they end up working (if they work) at low wage places that desperately need workers - so desperate they put up with things other places won’t. If you ask them, life’s not fair! If you ask anyone around them who really knows them and how they are, “Yeah I wouldn’t hire them either.”
When it comes to debt itself, the key is understanding it and having the dedication to pay it off. It doesn’t matter if it’s school debt, credit card debt, or any other type of debt. If one prefers eating out and enjoying oodles of the niceties of life, that debt isn’t going away. If one gets into more than their paycheck can pay off, they need to change something. It’s very helpful to look at how much those payments and paychecks are going/likely to be before saying something is affordable or not. It’s helpful to compare COL in various places before settling somewhere too. Whether one can handle debt or not isn’t restricted to those with/without people skills. Some folks look at a new credit card they receive in the mail and see it as cash they can spend.
It’s very rare* that I feel sorry for any story about debt I read about in the paper. I see too much IRL experiences from “the masses” and assume it’s similar elsewhere.
*I do feel sorry when the debt is medical related. That shouldn’t happen in a first world country.