Kenyon vs Vassar

What are the main differences between Vassar and Kenyon, particularly in terms of social scene?

What type of student would fit in better at which? Which would be better for a student who was shy in high school, looking to break out of his shell a little in college?

My kid visited both, several times, so take this with a grain of salt, but here are our impressions – Vassar has about 2400 students vs. Kenyon’s about 1650 students, so the larger student body can make it a little easier to find your “tribe.” On the other hand, Kenyon has greek life which is “non-traditional” in that there are not separate residential fraternity/sorority houses, but rather, as we were told, greek life members are assigned to clusters of space in regular dorms. Greek life can be a way for students to find their “family,” though, as a parent with one in greek life, and one not in greek life, there are advantages and disadvantages, and only a student/family can decide whether it makes sense. Both schools have more women than men, so that can make the social life a little easier on a male looking to “break out of his shell” more. Both are great schools!