<p>Sharpener, I’m referring to your post 68 in this reply. </p>
<p>OK, first, you and your child are different people. You are both of Asian (or partly Asian?) descent. You are the child of immigrants; your child is the the daughter of an HYPSM alum. Her parent(s) are posted internationally for work; they are able to afford full-pay tuition at a leading boarding school. She is attending one of the best and most rigorous high schools in the US. </p>
<p>Yes, your child has a hook. She’s a legacy, at least for your undergraduate college. Do not look at overall admit rates and think they accurately reflect her chances. The best person to speak to is the director of college counseling at your child’s school. He or she will know how legacy applicants from that school fare when applying to elite colleges, even down to how each college may regard legacies applying from that school.</p>
<p>See: [Legacy’s</a> Advantage May Be Greater Than Was Thought - Students - The Chronicle of Higher Education](<a href=“Legacy’s Advantage May Be Greater Than Was Thought”>Legacy’s Advantage May Be Greater Than Was Thought)
[Legacy</a> Admit Rate at 30 Percent | News | The Harvard Crimson](<a href=“http://www.thecrimson.com/article/2011/5/11/admissions-fitzsimmons-legacy-legacies/]Legacy”>Legacy Admit Rate at 30 Percent | News | The Harvard Crimson)
[Eisgruber</a> '83 defends legacy admissions, grade deflation at New York alumni event - The Daily Princetonian](<a href=“http://dailyprincetonian.com/news/2013/10/at-new-york-alumni-event-eisgruber-83-defends-legacy-admissions-grade-deflation/]Eisgruber”>http://dailyprincetonian.com/news/2013/10/at-new-york-alumni-event-eisgruber-83-defends-legacy-admissions-grade-deflation/)
[Stanford</a> Magazine - Article](<a href=“Stanford Magazine - Article”>Stanford Magazine - Article)</p>
<p>Depending on the school, grading may be stringent enough to render any online search engines useless. Deerfield, for example, has three students whose gpas are above 95, according to their online college profile. And yet they do very well in college placement.</p>
<p>A great deal will depend on test scores. Has she taken the PSAT? I don’t think it’s as reliable an indicator as people say. Nevertheless, your description does not make me think she has no shot, particularly at your alma mater. (The best person to ask–college counselor!!) </p>
<p>As for me, I would opt for excellence in the high school education, as good preparation can make such a difference for success in college. I have no idea how well your local schools prepare students for university. Are you certain she would be admitted? </p>
<p>If finances are a concern, you will want to ask of the college counseling office at each school (your local school, and your child’s boarding school) how students like your daughter fare in securing merit scholarships. </p>
<p>Do you plan to return to the States at some point? Or is part of the problem that you do not plan to return, and thus sending your child to college in the States would be a huge gamble, as she might choose to stay in the States?</p>