<p>I’m also waiting to see what happened</p>
<p>This will probably sound mean, cynical, or pessimistic, but:</p>
<p>I agree with the few people who said that it’ll either be a complete success or complete failure. And I think a lot of whether it succeeds or not has to do with how you look. If you look great, girls will see it as “cute” or “sweet,” if you don’t it’ll be seen as “creepy.” If you’re average looking it’s just a gamble and will therefore have more to do with the girl and how open-minded she is. I don’t want to make it seem like girls only care about looks–in fact, I think they care less about looks than guys–but since you’ve never talked to this girl she will have nothing else to judge you on but your looks.</p>
<p>This just comes from thinking about how I interpret attention from men, and how I think my female friends do based on the stories they’ve told me. Good luck.</p>
<p>Ruella.
but that’s probably the case whatever he tries to do. whether he’s good looking or ugly, as a guy he’s entitled to hit on girls XD
and i think that’s a fine way to do it. =)</p>
<p>No that’s weird, unless you’re attractive she’ll see right through this immediately.</p>
<p>Try talking to her during/after class as much as you can and try to become friends with her. When she at least knows who you are take it from there.</p>
<p>Unless you’re just trying to ask her on a date, then just ask her.</p>
<p>Consider this more direct approach. Tic Tac Toe is cute and all but I think this has a higher success rate.</p>
<p>Either sit down next to / close to her or catch her on her way out of class. Once class is over you can either give her a compliment right away or just introduce your self (compliment / comment on something might be a good idea), comment on something she’s wearing like her flip flops, school sweater, whatever, just comment on her or the class (something you both have in common). then be like “hey, I’m ____” and introduce yourself. Stick your hand out and shake hers politely. Then say “I was wondering if you wanted to grab lunch” or “are you free for lunch today”. If she’s not, get her number so you can set a later date and if she is go grab lunch somewhere.</p>
<p>I think she will be impressed by your confidence. And plus whats the worst that can happen? She says no and you go back to sitting on the opposite side of the room, but at least you gave it a shot so you have no regrets. No point in missing opportunities. Plus you can sense that she’s seems to be checking you out. Most people dont look at the same person multiple times.</p>
<p>Yo let us know how it goes haha</p>
<p>hangman! don’t make it ‘will you go out with me?’ that’s a little weird. maybe ‘coffee?’ or ‘what’s your name?’ </p>
<p>Even if a guy was totally unattractive to me, I would be impressed with his confidence and originality, and would at least be up to getting to know him better. On the other hand if he was totally unattractive and waited outside the door or something like that I would instantly think he’s a little creepy, probably judging too quickly but that’s what I would do. First impressions are so important!</p>
<p>i’ve been following this and also want to see how it goes.</p>
<p>i might have to change my repertoire if this works haha</p>
<p>HAHAHAA, I really wanna try this out myself! Good luck to the OP!</p>
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<p>You’re right, those are better. I especially like “Coffee?”</p>
<p>the whole give compliment/inquire about going to lunch thing is, from my girlish point of view, overdone and boring. the tic tac toe thing is original, i’d like it a lot regardless of the person’s attractiveness.</p>
<p>bump 10 char</p>
<p>i, as a girl, think this is adorable. i’d love for a guy to do this to/with me.</p>
<p>I’d totally go for it. And the hang man idea is cute too.</p>
<p>wow a lot of people are interested in results haha</p>
<p>well i went to class and finally got a seat next to her (which seemed almost impossible) and i asked her what she got on her test… she got a 90; i called her a nerd and said i should sit next to her from now on… she smiled and asked me what i got and i showed her my test which was a 95 haha… she said something like “yea you should sit next to me from now on”</p>
<p>the professor started lecturing again and later on in the class i noticed her yawning so i pulled out the tic-tac-toe box! i wrote on it “bored?” and put it on her desk… i normally never lose in tic tac toe, but somehow she won and wrote “i win” on the paper… i drew a line through my zig-zagged X’s and crossed out her “i win” and wrote my own “i win”… she smiled and gave a small laugh</p>
<p>i had an appointment so i left class early.</p>
<p>hardest part of this whole thing is having the confidence to play it out properly. good luck boys!</p>
<p>EDIT: i feel like this routine is going to get so overly used that there will be a common relationship between tic-tac-toe and picking up girls in class</p>
<p>I don’t get this…guys gotta stop thinking its hard to get girls to approve of them…all you need is some confidence and you’re golden…say I’m a internet freak that makes **** up on forums or I’m bragging or whatever… I’m just trying to get a point across… seriously I’ve walked into a dorm room out of nowhere with a few girls in it and just stared at them while eating an apple until things got extremely awkward to the point where they started to laugh and then introduced myself and asked for their names and said hope to see you guys around or something like that…next time you run into them they smile at you or laugh and you’re in…its like if you know what you’re doing you can purposely create awkward moments and still do better than the guy that engineered, envisioned and then contemplated his master tic tac toe plan for three weeks. Get some confidence and a mind of your own and loose the fear and you won’t be able to do anything wrong. </p>
<p>Next time you approach a girl try not thinking “oh em gee I hope this works, I gotta act smooth and funny, I hope she likes me and doesn’t shut me down, I hope I’m not out of tampons”…but instead try thinking “hmmm this girl is cute, lets see if she is interesting and funny and maybe she will have a shot with me”. You’re welcome.</p>
<p>That is adorable (: As long as the class isn’t something that requires a lot of note-taking (<em>cough</em> linear algebra), I would definitely go for it.</p>
<p>The reason this works is because 90% of guys don’t have the balls to do it. Most guys don’t have a lot of confidence and women like confidence.</p>
<p>^exactly. 10char</p>