Last Minute Tips!

<p>Hi,</p>

<p>I will be a freshman this year @ Yale. I am incredibly excited, but also incredibly nervous, as would be expected from a new college student.</p>

<p>Basically, I just want people to post last-minute tips on life at Yale and college in general.</p>

<p>Tips could include:
-class selection
-meeting roomates and buying furniture, etc.
-last minute stuff to remember to bring (!)
-social life
-how to deal with the stress of being a new student
-best jobs to get on campus
-inexpensive places to eat/shop off campus
-anything you want!</p>

<p>I'm making this post mostly to assuage my fears of the unknown of college life, but I think it could be helpful to other upcoming freshmen also!</p>

<p>Thanks for the help!</p>

<p>Yeah, I agree a thread like this would be really helpful. I'll also be starting classes in a few weeks, and while the Princeton/Harvard forums provide a wealth of information for their incoming freshmen, Yale's has been remarkably quiet. Are there any Yale students out there?</p>

<p>class selection: don't lock yourself too early. Take full advantage of "shopping period" and be willing to place 5 or 6 classes on your initial schedule, dropping one or two later if necessary. Talk to upperclassmen about the "gotta have" courses this semester -- the "grapevine" always has some good selections, some you may not have considered.</p>

<p>best jobs to get on campus: highest pay comes from dining halls but all have good pay rates. When you see how your schedule shakes out, you can see which ones fit you. I worked 3 yrs at the SOM and 2 in my own college. There are tons of options</p>

<p>Congrats to you and your fellow frosh. Enjoy New Haven!</p>

<p>What is the SOM?</p>

<p>School of Management, i.e. the business school.</p>

<p>Thanks. There's a whole new world of initials to learn!</p>

<p>Don't be too nervous about your first few days. There are plenty of things scheduled for you to do, and they are conducive to meeting lots of new people, especially those in your college. You will probably hit it off with your roommates/suitemates very soon and very easily. Buying furniture can be somewhat of a tricky question depending on how much you are spending. The easiest solution is to find a kid in your suite who is super rich and make them buy everything. But in all seriousness, remember when buying things for the common room that you won't necessarily all live together next year (in fact, this is highly unlikely to happen) and that some colleges (Morse and Stiles) won't even have common rooms when you move into them (although Morse is getting renovated next year, so you will be in Swing Space, which I believe has common areas, and then Morse may have common rooms after renovation).</p>

<p>As for shopping, don't expect cheap places anywhere near campus, and that goes for groceries too. Eating is a much better situation. In the Broadway area there are plenty of places - Ivy Noodle, Bulldog Burrito, Yorkside Pizza (and awesome, if expensive, milkshakes), Ashley's Ice Cream, A1, etc. There are also good spots a block south, where you will find lots of good Thai restaurants and coffee shops.</p>

<p>Another thing to remember is to go to lots of the opening events for different extreacurricular groups, even if you aren't initially very interested in the group. There will be free food galore and many of them will be "blue-booking" parties where you can ask upperclassmen about the classes you are thinking of taking, giving a good perspective on them from students who have actually taken the class.</p>

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<li> Be open to everyone you meet. Don't prejudge.</li>
<li> Whatever you've got (money, valedictorian status in high school, whatever), don't flaunt it. Yalies are understated.</li>
<li> Don't try to be cool. Yalies rabidly embrace whatever it is they love.</li>
<li> Only take 4 classes your first semester.</li>
<li> There are formal events. Guys should bring a jacket and tie and girls should bring a cocktail dress.</li>
<li> Be honest with yourself and whoever you hook up with about what you really want so you avoid hurt feelings (including your own). I'm using hook up broadly--not just talking about sex.</li>
<li> Call home once a week and really share with your parents. Especially if they are helping to finance college, showing your gratitude will make writing those tuition checks a lot easier.</li>
<li> Take lots of photos. You'll treasure them in the future.</li>
<li> If you're a liberal arts major, figure out the library early on. This may sound crazy, but Sterling (the main library) intimidated me and my roommates and we would have done better work if we'd gotten over it earlier.</li>
<li>Take time to stop and realize how lucky you are and how wonderful life is.</li>
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<p>Don't take a hard combination of courses in your first semester. Some people can handle it, but a lot of the time it does not work out so well. Also, 9 AM classes are not so much fun. </p>

<p>Use the first week or two to meet as many people as possible. There's a finite window of time when it's perfectly acceptable to approach a random stranger and have a conversation, and once it's over it will be more difficult to meet people. Even if it's exhausting, use camp yale/the first week or so of classes to talk with/do things with as many people as you can. </p>

<p>Don't study in your common room/suite. It rarely works. Explore your residential college library, CCL, and SML early in the semester. You'll know what those acronyms mean when you get to campus. There are also less well known libraries hidden around campus, but i'll let you find those for yourself. </p>

<p>There are no childrens books anywhere in the Yale University library. It's a travesty. </p>

<p>(for later in the semester) There's a 24 hour computer cluster in the basement of connecticut hall. It's the most wonderful place on old campus, when your computer is broken. </p>

<p>I like Claire's (across Chapel St. from Bingham) for vegetarian food, Mahmoun's (Howe St. between Edgewood & Chapel, closer to Edgewood... in the general behind Piersonish region) for quasi-vegetarian middle eastern food, Thai Taste (up Chapel st from old campus, past York) for asian goodness, and Wall St. Pizza (on Wall St./College & next to Silliman). I don't understand why people make a big deal about Sally's/Pepe's pizza. I think they're both not so good, although i've only had their pizza at campus events, not at the restaurants. I like wall st. for on-campus pizza, and find yorkside/A1 to be kind of unpleasant. But other people would disagree. I find yorkside food, in general, to be kind of greasy and generally sub-par. But the atmosphere is good, so i still go sometimes. </p>

<p>Get a map of the campus and learn the area immediately. It will make your life a lot easier. If you can, find old campus on a map and learn the surrounding streets even before you get to campus... or as soon as you get to Yale. In a pinch, use google maps to find a place on campus that you're not familiar with. </p>

<p>Never wander far off campus/out of the downtown area late at night. So, so much of what people say about New Haven is patently false, but if you're wandering off campus past 2 AM, you're asking for trouble. Keep your doors locked, and shut your windows when you leave your room if you live on the first floor. Burglaries are rare, but there was a string of them in the colleges last fall. This won't happen if you lock your doors/shut your windows. </p>

<p>Books at the yale bookstore are overpriced. If you're certain you're taking a class, you can sometimes look up the text books for the course & their bookstore price on the bookstore's website, or you can check a course's syllabus on the syllabus browser at Yale</a> Online Course Information | Search Courses. I think it might be down now, but it should be up soon. You can also find a class' syllabus on OCS once it's up. Check to see if you can find a better priced book from an online bookseller, or ask your big sibs if they know anyone who's taken the class/might be looking to sell their old text book. </p>

<p>Your roommate can be your best friend, but usually they are not. Even if you think you are not such a good match, be friendly and respect their space. If you can live together without annoying each other, your situation will probably be fine. If you have a problem with something, say it early. </p>

<p>Freshman advisors are truly useless... don't expect them to help you pick out your courses or a major. Frocos and big sibs are much more useful for course picking tips, or for setting you up with friends in majors that interest you.</p>

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<p>I think this really depends on whom you get. D's adviser was actually very helpful to her that first semester.</p>

<p>kwijiborjt gives great pointers about Freshman roommates. It's not the end of the world if you don't click. But be open minded too. When I first arrived, I was part of a pre-semester orientation pgm. I bonded w/many of the people there and wasn't overly compelled to hang out w/my roomies. Things shifted gradually and most of my suitemates became the best of friends. Four us us ended staying together into Soph year where we joined on with another 8 guys (and various girlfriends who lived w/us). This expanded group stayed tight for the remaining three years. When I got married, 13 of them showed up at my Chicago wedding.</p>

<p>kwijiborjt also makes a GREAT point about 9AM classes. They are to be avoided if at all possible. Once you have a series of 10AM classes in Linsly Chit (right off Old Campus), you'll never go back. As I worked my schedule during Shopping Period, all things being equal, sometimes the time and location of a class or even when its final fell (don't want to be the last guy on campus on Dec 22!!!!) would be determining factors. (Yes, I know this is patently anti-intellectual -- but I'm weak!)</p>

<p>One thing: Yalies love to moan and b**** about the walk up Science Hill. They got nothing to complain about if they've seen other campuses. Don't believe that you've got it bad. You don't. LOL</p>

<p>Check out what free courses are offered at the Gym. One year I took free golf lessons w/two of my friends' girlfriends. We had a blast! Free balls on Yale's golf course. Fantastic. If you're already a golfer, it's CHEAP too! </p>

<p>Check out some REALLY great volunteer organizations. Some are very well run and make significant contributions. It's good to keep your feet on the ground and aware of the real world.</p>

<p>Enjoy the football weekends but be prepared that it may not be like what you're used to. Ivy FB is a different animal. Lots of my friends were players so we were pretty devoted but know that many of your classmates may not feel like that. Hockey, men's and women's basketball & soccer are cool to see as well.</p>

<p>Many of the theatres have unclaimed standby tickets or just unsold seats. The night of the event, you can get one for $5 or something with your student ID. You may not be able to sit along with a date if they are single seats but for $5, who can complain? Take her/him out for ice cream afterward and chat about the play.</p>

<p>Check out the various Masters Teas going on -- some great speakers come in!</p>

<p>Visit other colleges and have fun. Then go back to your remarkable suite and give thanks once again that you're at Yale.</p>

<p>Lay out great communication w/roomies -- especially about visitors and guests. Overnights should be clearly communicated -- especially if the guest will be sharing the same bed. A guys' suite generally doesn't mind (unless you're in the double) but for women, this can be more tricky. You don't want your roommate walking in on your boyfriend in the shower the next morning unexpectedly.</p>

<p>Don't be surprised if you're roommate is more/less conservative than you, more/less messy than you, straight or gay, religious or not. Just TALK -- you'll be surprised how even those vastly different than you can become close, close friends.</p>

<p>EAT BREAKFAST!!! Avoid the Freshman fifteen. Grab something from nearby Jonathan Edwards (just renovated) dining hall (if you're on the Old Campus) or other colleges.</p>

<p>If you have classes near the School of Mgt, check out their cafeteria. They have GREAT selections (besides the normal dining hall menu) and you can apply your dining hall credits there. Want a thick steak for lunch? Sure. Pay $2 and show your ID. They have great (and portable) desserts too.</p>

<p>Check out the Intramurals -- it's a great vehicle to bond quickly w/lots of upperclassmen in your college. And pound rival colleges to boot!</p>

<p>DON'T buy that couch from those upperclassmen hawking them on the Old Campus the first few days of school NO MATTER HOW CHEAP IT IS. Why? You don't REALLY want to know, do you? Spend the extra bucks or ask gramma if she's got a spare on in the basement.</p>

<p>Never wander around alone. New Haven is wonderful during the day, but in the evening it may get a little scary.</p>