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Ivy_Grad and Alexandre -
I can't believe you guys - why don't you two start your own thread and argue away to your heart's content instead of hijacking someone else's thread. As I recall, the original question had nothing whatsoever to do with your opinions on Ivy League schools - are all Ivy grads as narcissitic and so persistently argumentative as your guys without taking others' boredom quotient into regard? Gees...
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<p>Several comments:</p>
<p>1) I already lamented on the fact that this back and forth w/ Alexandre had effectively hijacked this thread, however,</p>
<p>2) It does take "two to tango"</p>
<p>3) Why is it that whenever there is an argument about the Ivies it is the person who sides with and / or comes to the defense of the Ivies, that person is automatically a "narcissistic arrogant SOB"? For example, why doesn't Alexandre get painted with the same charge for taking as firm of a stand defending his position / opinions? I mean, that's all I'm doing right? Just defending my position, right? </p>
<p>4) Then what seems to happen is everyone else chimes in and agrees with this one-sided charge "yeah, I agree what a jerk"</p>
<p>5) Um, am I the only one who is arguing here? I am just countering some very strong positions / opinions - is one not allowed to do that?</p>
<p>6) This is a thread. That means it starts at one place and ultimately deviates here and there depending upon the course of the ensuing posts and arguments and claims that are used to back-up / substantiate certain positions. For example, whenever Alexandre chimes in with a "Ivies are overrated" claim to substantiate a point (on any given thread - such as this one) - I will not just sit back and let that slide folks. </p>
<p>7) This inherent deviation of threads seems to be acceptable in most cases, as long as its not "pro-Ivy" in nature. If it happens to have this kind of slant and / or direction, then you can be sure that it gets highlighted and the culprits involved get chastised. Am I complaining? Not really. Does this seem fair? No. But that's not the point of me bringing these issues up. Just want people to (at a minimum) "call a spade a spade" and at least acknowledge how biased this forum really is - its quite "anti-Ivy" in nature backed up by an unofficial CC kangaroo court that waits to pounce on anyone "pro-Ivy".</p>
<p>8) So there you go. Alexandre is a level headed and stand-up fellow for standing firm and taking such a strong stance on his opinions and positions - but I - "the Ivy guy" - no, no, no - we'll have none of that from you - when I try to do my best to defend my own position, the default characterization (and assumed underlying motivation of my actions) will be that I am simply a person who is "narcissitic and persistently argumentative."</p>