<p>macnyc:</p>
<p>I think my son was so focused on going to a warm climate and getting out of the NY winters it became the main factor and we allowed it to be. First visit was on a warm March day after flying in from 30 degrees. I didn't think the school was a particularly good match after sitting through the info session, but my son and husband were very enthused so I backed off because we had many other schools to visit (this was the first). We attended the accepted student day, he still loved it. No overnights but I can't remember if the school offerrred them. No warning signs other than my initial feeling. He was accepted to 5 other schools so he wasn't limited in his decision.</p>
<p>So now I know that I have to choose his next school and force him into an arranged marriage when the time comes.</p>