<p>*University of Texas at Austin was suggested by my daughter’s HS counselor. It looks like a great school … to me. My daughter is sure she wants to go to Texas though. *</p>
<p>Again…that public school will expect you to pay full freight. I hope you’re now understanding that OOS schools charge HIGH OOS rates for a reason. They expect you to pay those costs. They won’t give their very limited FA to OOS kids. They’re expected to help their own instate kids, not OOS kids with FA needs. </p>
<p>There are only a few Flagships that give large merit and Penn St, UTexas, UMich, UIUC, Purdue, UWisc, UCs, etc won’t do that. </p>
<p>UMinn may be an option since its OOS costs are lower than others, but again, you may be expected to pay full freight…about $30k per year.</p>
<p>How much can you afford to pay each year? </p>
<p>(Your child was very lucky to get good aid from NYU…very rare. That child must have had very high stats.)</p>
<p>It sounds like between my daughter and I we are quite picky, but given the commitment I think we have to be.</p>
<p>As for being “picky”, you can be picky when coming up with your list of reaches, but you can’t be that picky when coming up with financial safeties. There just aren’t financial safeties that will fill all your req’ts. </p>
<p>You have to figure out which of your D’s req’ts are the MOST important, and set the rest aside when looking for financial safeties. </p>
<p>I’m not sure of what “commitment” you’re talking about. The commitment of your money? Her time at a school? If it’s your money, then you’ll have to pay for getting all that you want in a “safety”. That means finding a school that has all of your desires, but won’t give you money, so you’ll be paying for all/most costs. </p>
<p>And, again, you’re not going to find “prestige” when looking for financial safeties…at least not how I think you’re defining prestige.</p>