<p>MicahB…</p>
<p>If you are refering to my reply please take the time to read it over as there is no attack. There is however guidance, insight, and feedback to help in your thought process. </p>
<p>Reading into a response from another only carries the tone of your own perception which as I’m sure you know is your own reality & not what is being conveyed. I have read all the responses and there is no attack on you form anyone of them, just concern, shock, and suggested directions. </p>
<p>As like most kids that attend college your are stepping into a new culture. A change in social construction is something we all have to accept no matter where we are in life. You can’t expect Columbia to revolve around you! </p>
<p>Think about these two questions:
What is the differance between selfless and selfish?
What is the differance between fair and equal?</p>
<p>There is a reason for each question that will tell you a lot about you. Once you are done thinking and answering each question combine them and put yourself in a new social construction.</p>
<p>Again I am a city street kid. You have to remember to allow the city to come to you…don’t try to make the city to come to you. In other words that city was there long before you came it will be there long after you leave.</p>
<p>You had valued you education up through high school and your now looking for the next step. Your right there; however, the key to success in college, the city and in your adult life will be to accept “all”. Social construction will change as you journey.</p>
<p>Southern Hope said it quite well…step out of your bubble. The world is a grand place for all of us when you can achieve that step. </p>
<p>Again, good luck with your final thoughts. I’m confident the other posters wish the same for you. </p>
<p>Please go back to your OP and give it some thought.</p>
<p>Break it down and tey to think about what you posted:
- “I feel like Columbia is really ghetto and somewhat poor and trashy.” To most if not all this is a very judgemental and insensitive statement. Not a very nice thing to say at all. Again, there is a lot of history in that city it will serve you well to look into that history.</p>
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<li><p>“I’m also not racist at all, honestly am not, but I didn’t like that there were almost as many blacks as whites.” This is clearly a racial statement, there is no other way to see it! </p></li>
<li><p>“Typically that indicates high crime and lack of education (just stating facts, not prejudice).” Bigotry comes to mind reading this statement.</p></li>
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