<p>Thanks for the replies.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, we realized that the “good news” from the npc of Feb 5 was almost certainly due to a glitch. I got a similarly low estimated net price on the same day from another college that also uses College Board to administer their npc. On closer inspection, both award estimates included a Pell grant, which we would not qualify for. When I re-did the npc’s for both colleges 3 wks later (was very careful to input the same amts in each field, which I had printed out from the first time), the net price for each was over 20,000 higher.</p>
<p>Also unfortunately, our family spent 3 weeks with the unrealistic idea that we could perhaps afford Macalaster, and during that time our daughter became even more attached to the idea of attending college there. I blame myself for this, getting sucked in to the idea despite the little voice I was trying to ignore saying “If it sounds to good to be true…” </p>
<p>The whole financial aid process has been quite a shock to the system for us, with an EFC of almost half of our take-home pay. We always told our daughter that if she worked hard in school, doing well in the most rigorous courses offered as well as establishing an active base of ec’s, she could write our own ticket (fwiw she has an uw 3.8 gpa in an IB program, 31 ACT, president of a school club, music, 10 yrs in a sport, and many many hours of community service). </p>
<p>I’m thinking that unless a middle income student is in the top 1-2% stats wise, the exorbitant cost of a private lac is likely to shut them out, unless they or their parents are willing to take on an unadvisable amt of debt. I don’t know of any family from our neighborhood (parents are teachers, police officers, private school administrators, computer programmers, engineers, small business owners) who have or plan to send their high achieving students anywhere but the honors program at our state flagship university. The same is true for the cohort our daughter will graduate with this year. Only the lower income and higher income students in her graduating class are likely to head out of state., exept for a few who are taking advantage of state-to-state exhanges with other large state universities. </p>
<p>I realize I have gone off on a rant here, which I didn’t initially intend. There are far worse fates for a young person than ‘having’ to attend a state university. I just want to point out the cost of a private lac like Mac remains out of reach for many middle income families, despite having students who would have much to offer these colleges and vice-versa.</p>