<p>I'm an incoming sophomore an Duke University. The university is good and all, social life is awesome, but it never really had what I wanted to do. The other good school I was accepted to did not give me enough financial aid. But, the problem here is, I thought I had been ready as a 12th grader to just go through the school for four years doing an engineering major that I didn't want to. I listed myself as civil engineering, wanting to get my true masters degree in industrial engineering. That's the major I think has been calling me ever since I laid eyes on the description in high school. Then through some pressure from family and websites, I have now decided that a mechanical engineering degree would be better and more general, if I want to get an industrial engineering career after college. </p>
<p>But to be honest, after reading tales and tales of mechanical engineering, I'm not certain if I want to spend the next 3 years struggling for a major, I don't really want. I'm not GOOD in physics, my grade in physics last term is a testament to this. Even though, I tried my best, and worked my hardest. I applied for a tutor, and it still didn't click like I thought it should. And, I would have begun my transfer process freshman year in college, but I was foolishly thinking then that I could last 4 years in this school studying a replacement major and that everything will turn out fine. WELL, I change my mind. I want to do industrial engineering, and I'm willing to leave my friends at Duke to do it. </p>
<p>But, the thing is, I don't know if I should. Maybe I'm overreacting. Is mechanical engineering a good substitute for someone who wants to have a career related to industrial engineering. I like the business/engineering aspect of industrial engineering. And my civil engineering course thought me about design and optimization and I'm certain I like those types of topics more(Industrial EGR), much more that straight hard core physics which I still struggle to comprehend. And, that is truly weird, because I love math, and I understand math easily. </p>
<p>What should I do? Should I transfer to another college so I can obtain an industrial engineering major? Or should I just stick it out in Duke. I need to make my mind up, because this stress is making me full with anxiety when I think about my future. That is why I neglected to think about my options for so long. </p>
<p>Please, whats your advice? I really need some guidance now. And if you do tell me to transfer, can you recommend any good universities that has a legitimate Industrial Engineering program. Honestly, I think all of my struggles with my major comes down to my Mom and her stressing me to do chemical engineering and to forget about Industrial when I was a senior in highschool. Her saying that it isn't a legitmate major, and that I might as well not do engineering if I'm going to do industrial and that other engineering courses cover the same topics as Industrial. And that Industrial EGR graduates make no money compared to others(i didnt care about that), yadda yadda yadda. And I'm not blaming her for my actions, I shouldn't have let anyone deter me from my path, but I was a child then. Not fully mature and not fully ready to take direct responsibility of my future, as I am attempting now. </p>
<p>Also: And for my transcript. I was on the Dean's list fall term, my grade dropped spring term because of physics(but I'm gonna try my hardest once I return to my school to get my physics grade up one because I believe that they didn't calculate it right, and my professor hasn't responded to my emails). And in sophomore year, I will concentrate fully on my courses, and pray that I do well. No more partying unnecessarily.</p>
<p>EDIT: Also, I won't hesitate for a second leaving Duke. I love Duke and all it has to offer. Diversity, athletics, awesome social life, work hard play hard atmosphere, people. But to be honest, I didn't really connect with my friends here. I still sorta miss HS friends, which is stupid. But still, Duke is an awesome school, and I'm glad I chose to come here, even with all this baggage I'm dealing with currently. I don't know if that makes any sense, but yeah.</p>