Hi guys,
Sorry in advance for the long post.
I’m a freshman & I can’t choose a major. My school wants me to declare this semester, and I’m almost done with gen eds (AP credit) so I don’t have any more room to take random classes. I’ve gone to my advisor and the career center, but it’s not helping & I’m really stressed (it keeps me up at night, honestly).
I’ve ruled out business, engineering, and pre-med, and I’m doing a foreign language minor. If you looked at my class schedule, you’d probably think I’m a bio major.
Most people tell me to do bio and/or chem, I guess because those are trendy majors these days & I’ve taken classes in both. However, I’m not sure if I could commit to a PhD, and there’s not very good job prospects with a BS/MS. At the same time, I’ve liked my STEM courses and I have some lab experience (which I do enjoy, but I’m just not sure if I could do it forever).
I really like working with kids, so I’ve considered education. However, my parents wouldn’t approve (they think I’m “too smart to be a teacher” and wouldn’t make enough money). Again, it’s just hard to picture myself doing it forever…but I feel that way about everything, so maybe that’s just because I’m too young?
The last one I’m thinking about is English. I like it, but again, I’m worried I won’t be able to find a job. However, I’ve always been really good at English, probably moreso than STEM – I’ve always gotten As in both, but I feel like other STEM students are just so much better than me, whereas in English I’m usually one of the best students in the class. However, I’ve only taken one English class in college, so it feels too hasty.
My current “plan” is to double major in bio and chem, but when I look at my four-year plan, it makes me sad because I wouldn’t have room to do anything besides STEM forever, and I really like the humanities. At the same time, I feel like I “have” to do STEM, although I’m not sure if that’s because I like it / everyone wants me to / sunk cost fallacy / peer pressure / something else. Now I’m considering a bio/English double major, but that seems kinda stupid.
In short: I’m very confused, very indecisive, and very stressed. Please help.
Thanks so much for your advice!