Making the Most of College

<p>Hi all,
This fall I'll be attending a local public with absolutely no prestige for financial reasons. It was a rather disappointing conclusion to my college admissions "game," but I'm determined to make the most of my time there. My dad having only completed his associates degree, and my mom being a Japanese immigrant, I wasn't very aware of service, leadership, or extracurricular opportunities in highschool. I was homeschooled k-12 and only learned about all the amazing things ya'll do shortly before it came time for me to apply. </p>

<p>I feel like I missed out on a lot, and I want to make sure my college experience is different. So what are ya'll planning to do, doing, or have done in college that you would recommend? What are some of your favorite experiences in college? If you could go back and start over, what would you do differently? I'm thinking more along the lines of internships/service projects/research competitions, etc. than partying and general social activities, but feel free to add those too if you think they were important. I will be a Biochemistry major shooting for med school if that info helps at all.</p>

<p>There is actually a lot to do at publics, especially if you go to a larger one. At the very least, regardless of where you are there are always opportunities. I go to a very small public college. We aren’t even considered a university.</p>

<p>First I would definately encourage you to live int eh dorms if you can afford it. It helps you make friends. By the end of your freshman or sophomore year you might hate it, but that’s okay, because part of living in the dorms isn’t just making friends either. It’s figuring out who you are in relation to other people that you hardly know and have to deal with in a small space daily. I have had some awful roommates over my time in the dorms–waking up to my roommate having sex, living in a triple and being asked to move out since my other two roommates decided they didn’t like me–even though I was hardly there–having a roommate with crazy bad depression who would fall asleep to Spongebob without headphones everynight and never shower or clean her third of the triple.) Ya, there are some relaly crappy parts but you learn a ton about yourself, plus you are on campus so it makes it easier to go the library, sub for food, and make it to all the club meetings and activities. </p>

<p>Get to know your professors. If there is a professor in your major you find you enjoy take one of their classes a semester if you can manage it. It lets them get to know you and see you’re a hard worker. Feel free to talk to your prof at office hours and ask a lot of questions. I’m a bit luckier at a smaller college since our classes have a max of thirty students even in gened classes, and we only have one polisci professor, but the conept is the same in a larger college. </p>

<p>Join a club or team. For me it was debate and Model European Union. If you are into business and you have the collegiate version of Business Professionals of America, go for it. Any sort of club that includes competition helps you meet the people at your university with similiar interests AND ALSO people from other colleges with similar interests while at tournaments. </p>

<p>Consider just normal clubs as well. Sometimes if you are into writing, or anime or whatever it be those clubs are just relaxing to meet someone similar as well. I also went to a large private university for a semester as well. They offered once to twice a week to go to the senior citizen’s home and visit among other service activities. Those are also great things to try. </p>

<p>Find internships. I’ve worked at the state capitol and for one of the state political parties. THe latter was a paid position. Make contacts not only in the school but out of it. If you are interested in science work with the science department at the school. Programming? Find a local computer company or somewhere that needs people with computer experience. </p>

<p>Just be involved. It’s not as hard when you are at college because generally there is always something going on. :smiley: Just keep an ear out and ask around for what there is to do when ya get there. </p>

<p>Wow thank you @musicallylatin this helped immensely. Really appreciate you taking the time to write all of that. This was exactly what I was looking for. Sorry about your dorm room experience, that sounds pretty darn awful. I will be staying in their dorms, so fingers-crossed none of that will happen. Have a wonderful week!</p>

<p>Even though musicallylatin did an outstanding job answering your question I would like to throw in my 2 cents if you don’t mind? Just like you, I’ll be a freshman next year but at Auburn University (probably not the “small” public school you were talking about) :P. Anyhow, although I am going to be a freshman I have gone to an extremely small boarding school for my past three years of high school so I can pitch in a little as well.</p>

<p>Not knowing necessarily how “small” your school is, just like musicallylatin stated, you need to live on campus for at least your first year. Not only will this help you get accustomed to living by yourself, but it will also help you learn to live with other people you may not necessarily know well, and also you will have the opportunity for as many experiences as you can get. By living on campus, not only are you opening doors for friendships and relationships, but you are also exposing yourself to more information on clubs, intramurals, Student Government, and more. Because you’ll be at a smaller school, you may not necessarily know everybody, but you will definitely see a lot more familiar faces than you would at a much larger school. And not only that, but it will be easier for you to get a jump start on your social life in college. Yes, a social life. Maintaining a good GPA is obviously important, but what good are you getting out of your experience in college if you don’t make friends or go to parties? The only thing is to just not let the social scene take control of you, you must take control of it. By living on campus it will be much easier for you to prioritize yourself and keep yourself focused, but at the same time you’ll have a jump start at making friends and going out on the weekends!</p>

<p>As mentioned in the last paragraph, there are many organizations to be involved in on campus including clubs, intramurals, and Student Government. One of the great things about college is no matter what size it is, there’s always something going on, you’re just going to have to go get yourself involved. You said that your dream is med school. Here’s the catch: many graduate programs like medicine, law, and engineering want difference makers, not just smart workers. They’re looking for people to make a difference in their workplace, not just work and not talk to anybody. By running for leadership positions, rushing Greek life, and getting involved in other extracurricular activities, you’re teaching yourself and showing others that you are determined to make a difference in whatever environment you’re in, and when you have the good GPA to back all that up, your resume will be something greater than that “kid who only studies”. Being involved will also help you meet people and meet others from other colleges and universities as well.</p>

<p>Lastly, make sure that you don’t overwork yourself. Being a pre-med major, your curriculum will be difficult as it is. Plan accordingly around your schedule and if you’re doing too much, prioritize then drop something. Let’s say if you’re taking a hard 16-hour curriculum and an internship, it may be better not to sign up for 5 or 6 clubs but maybe pick one or two extra to be a part of. Many students in college don’t make it because they stress out over the course load, but if you prioritize and drop, you will be successful. If you do happen to get stressed, however, obviously it is completely normal. Some good ways to relieve stress are working out, having fun on the weekends, and going to church. Remember what I said in the first paragraph, make sure you have a life outside of studying, not only is it healthier but it will be a better way for you to succeed.</p>

<p>Now that I’ve given my thoughts about what you should do, I figured I’d let you know what I’m planning on doing. I’m actually living off-campus my first year at Auburn, however I have lived in a dorm building with a community bathroom for three years in high school. In high school, I was involved in numerous activities around campus, including varsity basketball, after school math tutoring, after school tutoring with 6th-12th graders around my city, National Honor Society, and Key Club International. Notice how I did only a few ECs, but because I had to prioritize and drop. My course load this year included Linear Algebra, Multivariable Calculus, Differential Equations, Organic Chemisty, and Pyrotechnics. At Auburn, I plan on majoring in Chemical Engineering. Not only will my course load be difficult, but I’m also planning on participating in Greek Life, Student Government Association, Baja Racing Team, a Christian student ministry, and possibly more. My student apartment is less than a mile from campus, however like I said I’ve already lived in a dorm-like setting for three years, so I feel as if my mind will be right. I hope you see my thoughts as interesting and helpful! And good luck to you in your next four years! If you have any questions or would like to chat as friends I’d gladly talk to you! :)</p>

<p>Awww, thank you BamaBaller95!! Really, really appreciate you taking the time to answer my question and talk about your plans. I found your post extremely helpful. The school has about 17,000 students but it feels a ton smaller because of the large amount of commuters. I will reconsider living on campus. I was just going to live with two friends who both go there; one a grad student, another a nursing student. I guess dorms would be a better way to make friends. I really wasn’t planning on having much a social life. Thanks to my Tiger mom, I never had one in highschool. This college being the college I always swore I’d never go to, I was just kind of planning to get in and get out. Probably should not be such a recluse though. </p>

<p>I’m definitely planning on getting involved in leadership, service, research, and other extracurricular activities. Good point about grad schools wanting difference makers and not just hard workers. I’ve been trying to think of projects I could start in the local community to make a difference, there’s certainly a lot of problems that could use some help. What kind of activities are good for showcasing leadership? I thought about student government but was worried it would seem to “generic.” I am pre-med majoring in Biology, but I already have 48 credits under my belt which means I can get away with a very relaxed course schedule. I’ll probably take 1-2 hard science classes per semester and fill in the remaining credit requirement with classes towards a minor or something. I think prioritizing and striking a balance between work and play will be my biggest challenge. I’m a slightly OCD, perfectionist, overachiever…balance has never been my strongpoint. </p>

<p>By the way, good luck at Auburn!! I almost was going to go there, but parents thought it was too far away. I’ve met several potential and current Auburn students and it seems like an absolutely wonderful student body. I wish you the best of luck in all of your endeavors there! And thanks once again, I’ll probably take you up on your offer to chat later :slight_smile: </p>

<p>Some nice leadership positions could be Student Government (although it is kinda “generic”, it’s a great way to start). You could also run for a position in a sorority, a club, or honor society. There’s many, many choices!</p>

<p>Congratulations to you for embarking on this journey. It is definitely not for everyone, but recommended.lol…
That being said. Have fun, make best friends, STUDY/WORK HARD, volunteer on campus initiated projects like, community services, research opportunities & internships especially for medical school application; study abroad etc. Get involved in campus clubs and activities of your choice, but most importantly make GREAT FRIENDS… that will positively influence your life and beyond.
Best of luck to you.</p>

<p>Ha ha. No problem. You just always have to keep in mind no matter here you are there are always opportunities, and while it can be tough to go to a less prestigious public school–especially a smaller one–it has its own unique advantages. I often get frustrated with my campus. I am one of the few people with my major and the only one with a specific combination of major and minor in the entire school. We have 4,500 students and a 99.1% acceptance rate. Trust me, academically it can get discouraging. We are half techincal two year and half four year college. But you really do have advantages. </p>

<p>I just got home from a school paid for dinner where I got to help interview one of the candidates for a professor in my division. I got an all expense paid trip for MEU. I have gotten all expenses paid trip to DC and Arizona and Idaho for debate (shockingly enough Idaho has one of the top debate teams in the country…go figure… :smiley: ). I hadn’t really done debate in high school and never Model United Nations, or Model EU. I have gotten to volunteer with freshman orientation and find out after we all got paid, and I get first dibs as one of the well known hard working students to most of the internships and opportunities along those lines. Even better, for summer programs and things I have applied to I have received phenomenal letters of recomendation from professors because they all know me and I know them. </p>

<p>Tonight I carpooled to the dinner with one of the professors, who is also my advisor and debate coach. Afterwards we talked for an hour about the candidate, my two classes with her, the team, and subject theory and the conference paper I’m working on. </p>

<p>No matter where you are there are always ways to be involved, you just have to look hard enough. At the very least I cannot stress enough to get to know your professors. In the end you might even make friends. My prof that I was talking to after dinner tonight is headed to Disney World at the end of the semester and before I left looked at me and asked, “OH! Is there anything you want from Disney while I’m there!” and another professor always brings me back Kinder Eggs when he goes to his yearly conference in Canada. Don’t worry about being in a non-prestigious school. You can make it an awesome experience. :smiley: </p>

<p>@coco2018 Thank you! Appreciate it.</p>

<p>Wow @muiscallylatin, thank you for the inspiration; you seem like an amazing person and student. I feel so much better about going to “no-name-U” now…something that normally does not happen on cc if you know what I mean.</p>

<p>@southerncharm95‌ As others have mentioned I suggest living on campus if it’s possible- 17000 is huge!! My school has about 3000 students lol.</p>

<p>Anyway, I am finishing up my freshman year and there are already multiple things that I would have chosen to do differently. I really didn’t get involved until my second semester which was a huge mistake. Explore what you love to do, explore what you do not know. Go to events and participate. The last month or so I have attended events held by multiple organizations and I wish I had attended sooner, I am already making lists of groups that I would like more information about, and many groups I am considering joining. For sure, go to events, at least look around go to at least 2 events a week, get involved!!! I cannot stress that enough go alone if you have to but it will make your experience so much more enjoyable. You will learn a lot about your school and it is well worth it!</p>

<p>@Jazzii Thank you! I guess I should live on campus then. And don’t worry, I plan on getting involved, perhaps to involved ;)</p>

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