<p>My dad said that today, no one actually pays for college straight up; it’s all in loans. But I’m not so sure anymore after reading what you all have to say.</p>
<p>No offense to your dad, but he may want to believe that because he’s not prepared to help you much with your college costs. Many students take out fed loans, but those are small and do not cover much of college costs. Some parents take out Parent Plus loans to help cover costs, but they need to be responsible for payback, not the student. </p>
<p>The truth is that most people do not borrow all of their college costs - because young people can’t borrow much on their own. And, it’s not a good idea to get co-signers to borrow larger amounts because you won’t likely be earning enough once you graduate to afford to pay all that back. </p>
<p>Federal student loans are limited to $5500, 6500, 7500, and 7500 for a reason - because it is understood that people cannot afford to pay much more than that back once they graduate and are working. So, the most you can borrow for 4 years in fed student loans is about $30k total. </p>
<p>Obviously, those small amounts won’t cover your college costs - unless you commute to a very inexpensive state school. </p>
<p>So, if your family isn’t low income, then they are expected to contribute. </p>
<p>You need to ask how much your parents can contribute each year. If they can’t contribute much (even though their income is high enough that you don’t qualify for aid), then you need to strategize and apply to appropriate schools, such as…</p>
<p>1) state schools that you can commute to.</p>
<p>2) schools that will give you big merit for your stats.</p>
<p>3) start at a CC and then transfer.</p>
<p>you need to get some firm financial info. You need to find out what your family’s likely Expected Family Contribution is and whether they can pay that much. That will also determine where you should apply.</p>
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[FinAid</a> | Calculators | Expected Family Contribution (EFC) and Financial Aid](<a href=“Your Guide for College Financial Aid - Finaid”>Expected Family Contribution (EFC) Calculator - Finaid)</p>
<p>Do both the federal methodology and institutional methodology. Many privates use the both methods. If there is a non-custodial parent, then their income (and step-parent incomes) might also be included at some schools.</p>
<p>Parents and student need to decide NOW, how much each is willing to borrow each year (and total for four years). Keep in mind that for a student Direct loan, the monthly payment will be about $115 for ten years for each $10k borrowed, and for a Parent Plus loan the monthly payment will be about $135 per month for ten years.</p>
<p>Sometimes, students (and parents!) can be rather naive about the future negative impact of large student loans on their young adult lives…especially if their future career doesn’t pay much during the early years after graduation. Students also need to borrow as little as they can for undergrad if they will need to borrow for med/law/business/grad school. None of those professions pay enough during the early years to pay back huge loans.</p>
<p>Once you’ve found out your EFC, then discuss with your parents about what they can pay.</p>
<p>Keep in mind that the term EFC is misleading. That is not the most your parents will be expected to pay. Most schools do not have the money to help students cover much of college costs.</p>
<p>What are your stats? What is your GPA? What are your ACT/SAT scores. If you haven’t taken both, then plan on it. :)</p>