<p>Hi everyone,</p>
<p>As of now, I've narrowed my choices between two schools, University of Rochester and McGill. After visiting both, I realize how vastly different they both are. I think my dad is leaning towards Rochester, because he loves the tight bond between all students. I also like this alot, but I don't want to let go of McGill in my mind because I have a feeling that it would just be so cool to be in the city (and my dad responds that I won't be able to afford the city anyways!). Anyways, his major skepticism is that going to McGill would mean that you are just another lost soul. There are 30,000 students and it has this overriding feeling everywhere thats like "Hey bud, you're on your own up in this freezing tundra." He says it would be too easy to lose your identity up here, with such a big university. Furthermore, McGill is basically like an extension of Quebec high school to some kids. They come there and don't expand their circles of friends at all...especially to Americans.</p>
<p>To those of you who go here and possibly had these same exact concerns, please give me a brief account of the feeling of identity at McGill and if you still ecounter these feelings. Also, can you even afford to do things in the city while you're up here?</p>
<p>P.S.- I'm not putting down McGill, I'm just trying to sort out all of the drawbacks before I make the biggest decision of my life.</p>
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