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<p>It seems important to keep in mind that there are two issues for the school to deal with. First, getting your son retested and then using the results of the tests and the recommendations of the testing psychologist to come up with a new and better plan to educate him. Second, dealing with the teacher who has been behaving so unprofessionally.</p>
<p>When you go into the school on Monday, make sure you let them know that you want your son retested immediately. As in, get it on the schedule next week. Although private testing would probably be helpful and give you a lot of insight, if the school district employs or contracts with a licensed clinical psychologist who does a lot of educational testing, this will save you a ton of money and be an excellent first step. Testing that was done in kindergarten, 11 years ago, doesn’t cut it, and violates the law six ways to Sunday if your son has been in a special education program. You need to find a correct diagnosis for you son in order to be able to help him best and make plans for his further education.</p>
<p>Please take a look at the posts above that lay out what a child with intellectual challenges or learning disabilities is entitled to. Special ed teachers and advocates have posted here, with extensive, accurate information for you. Please make notes and ask your school why things have been happening differently for your son. I would agree that it makes no sense that your son is doing so well in regular classes if there is an intellectual deficit serious enough to keep him in special ed for all these years.</p>
<p>If there is a way you can connect with an outside advocate, perhaps through one of the organizations that earlier posters have suggested, I think it would be a good idea. The situation you describe is very confusing, and it might take an outside person with only your son’s best interests (and not the interests of the school district) at heart to get to the bottom of it and help you negotiate with the school.</p>
<p>Also, before you go in, please write a very well organized list of all the different things the teacher has said to your son. If you have approximate dates (such as “in early November, just after my son asked to sign up for xyz”), that would be helpful. The teacher’s comments are unacceptable, and the principal needs all of the facts in order to investigate. </p>
<p>Finally, and I’m really hoping this is an off the wall question that doesn’t apply to you at all, but in my part of the country not all that long ago, several districts were found to have made a habit of dumping mostly minority boys into special ed and then leaving them there. Many of these students did not belong in special ed, and they were deprived of an appropriate education. If you are a racial minority with a child who has been in special ed based on a test he took 11 years ago, was never retested, and who gets A’s and B’s in some regular academic classes, it might be good to find yourself a lawyer in case the scenario from my region is being played out in your district.</p>