<p>Eileen..I hear ya on the whole Annie tour thing. I'm trying to recall the year and sequence (my mind must be going due to age and my D is out of town to help here) but I think it was in 1999, also in NYC. I recall my D going five times for this. I recall the initial open call, all day long, met lots of people that day. I recall a callback down to the finalists and being seen by Martin Charnin...I think she was up for Tessie then. That ended with being told she was one of two kids on some "hot list" for the future. I recall some other time in the summer when she had to go in again, this may have been for Annie replacement this time but she was away at theater camp and I was out of the country!! She was taken into the city by the camp that time. I was in touch with producers given the situation and believe me, in pins and needles in a far off place wondering what was going on (she was ten). Another time she was to go into the city from camp for a callback for Jane Eyre (Broadway) and they were going to take her in but at the last minute my D called home and said, "mom, will you take me?" as it was something she would normally do with me and this was a Broadway callback, not anything a kid from VT typically does! (by the way, this callback fits into the discussion because after that entire callback group, the directors decided to start entirely over with casting the kids saying they wanted to go "shorter"....and so I feel these experiences were great exposure to what casting is like at that level, NOTHING like at home where they normally just go mostly by talent, not inches and such!)</p>
<p>Then that fall, I recall hearing from the Annie tour again, for the role of Annie as the replacement. Back to NYC again (as if it were around the corner!...it's approx. 12 hours roundtrip in one day). That was the time when they called up kids from this so called "hot list" from the past auditions, finalists I guess...but then also brought in open call kids. In the end, they were back down to the final three from the earlier hot list. That was the time they said it came down to her and two blond girls and when she was told her complexion would not be right with red hair, in their view. I thought the producer was very good talking to a child and explaining she felt she would likely get to play Annie locally at some point and guess what, the following year, she did. And ya know, I felt EXACTLY like you did. My D wanted to audition in NYC and while we always supported her goals (and still do), it was with mixed feelings because it would challenge our lives in a big way and we told her I would NOT go on a tour or live in NYC with her but she'd have to have a chaperone, and I'd visit (she did not care, believe me...is not the homesick type), as we had another daughter and we are married too. I was so relieved it never came to that.</p>
<p>The way I see it, it was a win win situation because it allowed her to experience auditions and many callbacks at a higher level, Broadway/tours, etc. but we didn't have to DO the shows, LOL. It allowed her to see how she fared in a much stronger talent pool. It also is valuable to gain audition experience and I can truthfully say my D is not intimidated by auditions and being in front of a panel of judges and so forth. The experience of the auditions were great and then, we got to go HOME! Yay! (for me). We did not do this too often because we live too far away and she was ALWAYS involved in shows and many activities at home and so those were commitments we could not break midstream and besides that was her normal life (important too). </p>
<p>It turned out that she was cast in her first NYC agent submitted audition ever, and that job was ideal...she did it for three years, twice per year approximately, which involved just a long weekend in various cities around the country, and a rehearsal in NYC each time. She never had to give up a thing at home, even shows she was in and I just got to go with her for those periodic long weekends a couple times per year to do a professional job and yep, go home to regular life and her ongoing shows/activities/school. It was a taste of something on a big scale but not much of a commitment like Broadway or a tour would be. It was a neat experience for a kid from a tiny village and she'd have done it for free but was paid no less. So, like you, I am truly thankful she did NOT go on the Annie tour and frankly, it was the nonequity tour and the conditions of that tour were not great.....constantly in the bus as they only performed one or two shows per stop, making it harder for a parent to visit. I do know kids who had done the Equity tour but at the time of that tour, I had never taken my child to NYC for an audition and never would have dreamt to do so. She came up with this idea to audition in NYC after exposure to theater kids at her camp. So, she missed the whole set of Broadway and tour productions of Annie that were the Equity ones which may be the one YOUR D tried out for. My daughter has played Molly and Annie but in our state and for me, this really was better for our (and her) lives. Hopefully some day she can do that stuff for real! (well, not play Annie, of course) :D</p>