and English major?
Sorry to be the grammar police, but this typo made me chuckle.
I can understand that you are unhappy where you currently are - lots of freshmen are. But, like others have suggested, it is important to get the information you need to make the best decisions for you.
Your parents sound very generous to me, and they still want the best for you, but most importantly they want you to be happy. They want to know that when you make decisions, you’ll make them from an informed perspective. Since you applied to college very late, and they had to help convince you to attend there, in their minds you haven’t shown that you are ready to make your own life decisions yet. Are you more upset with your Dad choosing your major and planning your schedule? Or is it the school itself? What major are you looking at, if not English?
Remember, it is hard for them as parents to see their child, who is not ready to make decisions, potentially make serious life mistakes.
I think you sound very immature when you suggest that
but then you later admit
But I understand that some of that may just be your frustration coming out.
I am curious how much financial aid, if any, you are getting now, and how much you might expect at the new school. If you are attending college now, getting financial aid, and you don’t even understand how it works, then your mom is 100% right to be worried about how you might afford it. The fact that you applied to transfer before understanding the finances, in my mind, might have been a bit premature. But it isn’t the end of the world.
It is admirable that you have realized you are unhappy and are determined to change your situation. But is there a counselor at your current school who can help you sort things out, and prepare yourself for an important conversation with your Dad?