<p>Rosy,
As a school counselor, I've worked with many hispanic parents whose children will be the first in the family to attend college. The story you are telling is one I hear over and over again from my students. There are some very real cultural and legal reasons why hispanic families may be reluctant to apply for financial aid. </p>
<p>If one or both parents are not here in this country legally, there is a lot of fear that applying for financial aid will alert the INS as to their status and so they won't apply, even though, as citizens, their children are eligible for federal and state help. </p>
<p>Other families believe that they will have to reveal "secret" financial information to the government if they apply for financial aid, such as earnings made "off the books." </p>
<p>In some hispanic cultures, there is a taboo about borrowing money, so parents may be petrified of student loans. </p>
<p>There is also a strong sense of pride - asking for help is hard for many. Some families, especially those who haven't been to college or may not be fluent in English, don't understand how financial aid works, or are afraid of the process. </p>
<p>Finally, some hispanic parents want to keep their children close to the family and think that if they don't apply for financial aid, their children will stay at home, instead of going away to college.</p>
<p>In many families, more than one of these reasons is involved.</p>
<p>My advice to you is this: think of an adult that your parents respect. It could be a teacher you trust, your school counselor, the minister of your church, even a parent they know who has been through this process. Ask them to talk to your parents and explain that not applying for financial aid is like giving up free money, and that the majority of students these days DO get financial aid - it is silly to pass up money if you qualify for it!</p>
<p>There isn't much that we, a bunch of strangers on anonymous board, can do to help you. But I have found that many hispanic families will reconsider when they have a chance to hear the full story from an adult they know and respect. So, as soon as you can, figure out who you can get to talk to them. I wish you all the best of luck. If you would like to PM me to discuss your family's situation privately, please feel free to do so. I can point you towards some resources that might help.
Carolyn</p>