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know I do tend to have a negative view of Florida schools, and they’re perfectly fine, perhaps more than fine (people around here absolutely rave about USF) but my true desire is to go out of state and I’m just feeling a bit discouraged and upset that this probably cannot happen for me, simply because my parents won’t contribute.</p>
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<p>Well, the beauty of living in a large state that is long and skinny is that if you go a bit north or south (or west in the panhandle!), you will feel like you’re in a totally different area…with a different culture and feel! It will be as if you left the state!!! The idea of going OOS really just means that you want to experience something new and different, right? </p>
<p>It sounds like you are in the Tampa area. Is that true? then look at the Florida publics that are away from Tampa and also give large merit. What would FIU or FAU offer you for merit? I’m guessing that UCF is too close, right? If not, what would it offer? </p>
<p>When it comes time to apply to med schools, then you’ll apply to all the instate SOMs and a number of OOS private SOMs. That may be your opportunity to go OOS. And if that doesn’t work out, then you may do your residency in another state. You likely will get to experience living in another state…at some point. </p>
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<p>Well, when parents are worried about money and cost, it is quite typical for them to say something like, “We can’t do that for you because then we’d be expected to do that for your younger siblings.” My kids went to private K-12, and when my kids were in the 8th grade, I would often hear parents tell their oldest kids, “we can’t send you to private high school because we won’t be able to afford to send your younger sibs.” Now, I have seen those same parents later send the younger ones…but that is usually because the finances got un expectantly better. With older kids, parents are often hesitant to set a precedence.</p>