<p>Here is my story and my predicament:</p>
<p>I am 34 years old, and married and have a 8 month old son. Back when I graduated HS, in 1994, I wasn't a serious student, I went to school just because that was what was expected. I paid for, or my single mother, paid for my college education at a local community college, I didn't use grants or loans.</p>
<p>During this time, I dropped several classes due to lack of interest, laziness, and other factors. So my completion rate was crap, about 60%, but I didn't notice how bad it was or what it meant, since I was self-paying for the schooling.</p>
<p>Fast forward to 2001, my father died and I decide to get serious with school. I completed my AA at the community college and transfered to a local regional school, and decided to major in Criminal Justice/Paralegal studies, thinking I would go to law school. I graduated three years later Cum Laud with a great completion rate and GPA. </p>
<p>After graduation, and the economy crashing, seeing that going to law school would not be a good idea with so many people going to law school because of the economy, and finding out that finding a paralegal job in my city is almost impossible without already having experience, i've worked with several placement agencies, all of whom were impressed with my typing speed and paralegal knowledge, but none have been able to find me work, the legal market is just too small here. And no, moving isn't an option. I make 20k a year at the moment working in a hospital as an orderly, and have to live with family to survive.</p>
<p>I've spent the last several months taking aptitude tests and doing other soul searching, to come to the conclusion that with my innate ability with math and science, that I should have been an engineer. So a month or two ago I recently applied back to the community college I had attended before to take some hours that I need for the engineering degree that I can transfer to a local state college. However, after being readmitted, I found out that I was on financial aid supension. I never knew this, because I had always been self-pay.</p>
<p>I talked to an FA person at the front desk and they acted like "oh its not a big deal, just fill out an appeal form and say something like "I was immature before but i've grown up" He literally told me that was it. So I did that, of course I put a little more detail than that, and I also attached my transcripts from my CJ degree college. I filled out the fafsa before that too, and since I already had a BS degree, I wasn't eligible for pell, but I could take out loans, and that was exactly what I planned to do.</p>
<p>Well, the day before yesterday, I was told that my appeal was denied. To say the least, I am ****ed. I've never used financial aid, but the time I need it, I am told I have to pay out of pocket, and that after I complete 6 hours in a semester without dropping or without a grade below a C, I can re-appeal. Of course this doesn't mean anything, because the appeal can just be denied again. </p>
<p>The thing is, the cost of the classes at the Community College isn't that high, and I could probably cash-flow it, but barely, while working and going to school full time.</p>
<p>The true problem is once I transfer to the state school. My completion rate should be well over the % needed for FA, but after doing research lately, I have found out that I would be over the maximum attempted hours! And the tuition at the state school is about 3x more than the community college, and there is no way whatsoever I can self-pay for that.</p>
<p>Does the fact that I am going back to school to get a different BS degree matter at all? What options can any of you guys think of? Do they make exceptions for someone going for a second degree? Do they care about my situation, that fact that I started off foolish and immature and am now mature and seeking to better my life, as well as that of my son and wife? What if I don't drop any classes and I make great grades?</p>
<p>I am just about ready to go crazy. I have finally decided what path would be best for me, and have the desire, and drive, but I am having my legs cut out from under me. I can't afford this without loans. Am I screwed? Do I spend the rest of my life as a transporter because my college FA office says so? Can I transfer to another university and start from scratch with 0 credits? Can I "cancel" credits? Can I have the engineering school ignore my degree from the regional school, since NONE of the courses I took there would go towards my eng degree?</p>
<p>Need some serious advice.</p>