I am a college student and this semester i have been really bad. There is just no excuse at all and i got my midterm report and i had 3 ds and 3fs. I am absolutely sick to my stomach. I cant eat, im crying so hard, i cant sleep. Im absolutely destroyed about this. There is no excuse for it. I dont know what to do, ive never been in this bad of a position. Please someone give me some advice on how to go about this situation because i literally cant do anything im so sick.
Hello. I am sorry about the grades. Please calm down. It’s not over yet, things will work out. Just take a deep breath. There are solutions to your problem. What classes are they?
OK, the very first thing you need to do is call home. Let your parents know about your grades. But, more than that, let them know about what sounds like this mom to be depression.
What do you mean when you say you have “been really bad”??? Are we talking in terms of behavior or strictly academics? Because what I would advise depends on the answer to that question. If it’s strictly academics, you need to see each of your professors during office hours, and see what you can do about getting on track. If it’s other “really bad” behaviors, then it’s a bigger question. You may want to reconsider your current living arrangements/ crowd of friends/whatever to break the cycle of whatever behaviors have been the root of your problems.
But in the final analysis, there’s nothing you’ve done that can’t be taken care of. There are always options, even if you can’t always see them when you’re in the midst of the situation.
Start with a phone call home tonight. You’ll feel better, I promise.