This is my very first post. I have been obsessively lurking for the past year, particularly in the Athletic Recruits threads, and can’t tell you how much help it has been. But, I wanted to share our experience because it was not quite what I had expected.
DD is a rising senior and been in contact with multiple academically selective/NESCAC coaches. Until about 1 week ago, when I first came across this thread, we were in a holding pattern. She had made her unofficial 1-day visits and met with coaches. All had been very positive and seemed interested in her. They all requested her transcripts, test scores, school profile etc for pre-reads for admissions. She was told that in the meantime, she should start planning overnight visits in the fall. We were careful not to get too excited as it was still early in the process. Some coaches mentioned “lists” and “support” with admissions, but we did not press for the terms “tips” or “slots” as it seemed premature. I assumed these discussions would occur after overnight visits in the fall.
A little background…DD has a dream academic school (a top NESCAC). It has been since she first visited it as a “nonathlete” last year. It was truly one of those “lightening struck” moments. At the time of her first visit, she was not what I would have considered a “top tier” recruit. She reached out to the coach of that school and has been keeping him posted on her progress over the past year. She provided the information for a pre-read, has spoken with him on the phone on several occasions, and he has called her high school coach. She finally had the opportunity to meet him in person at a recent skills clinic. After the clinic, he told her that admissions loved her transcript, he had the green light to support her, he wanted her and was offering her a spot and that, while he couldn’t offer a Likely Letter like the ivies, she could feel “very very good” about this. He said that he realized it was early in the process and that she could think about it, but to please let him know as soon as she could because if she was not interested, he would offer the support to someone else.
So… heeding the advice on CC about being particular about language, I pressed. I asked him what he meant by “support” and to explain how his recruiting worked. Does he have tips and slots? He was very open. He said that he can’t comment on how other NESCAC schools operate, but at this school admissions assigns athletes to academic bands. Then, given the band assignment, he decides how he wants to allocate his support; some need more, some need less. But he said that once he makes his allocation and submits his list of 5 recruits (this may have been an “for example” number), all the recruits on that list have the same chance of being admitted. (This sounds akin to a “slot” to me, but who knows? He did not use that word.) When, again as I learned to do on CC, I asked, “so what percentage of recruits with my daughter’s band and level of support are accepted EDI” he replied, “All. You can feel VERY VERY good about this.”
I was perplexed. No overnight visit??? I had thought this was standard as a decision point for the coach and the team. So… I asked. “What about an overnight visit?”“Doesn’t the chemistry of the current team members factor in?” This all seemed to happen very very fast. He said that he did not feel OVs were always necessary and could interfere with his athlete’s scholastics in the fall. He said of course if DD wanted to do one, he would be happy to arrange it. But since he had already spoken with DD’s high school coach about her character and attitude, he felt good. He also mentioned that one of the current team members who was staffing the clinic had independently approached him and said, “I really like DD.”
Coach’s last words to DD were “You can feel really good about this. Start loading up on <insert school color” gear."
So, there you go. No mention of slots or tips. No overnight visit. And yet, maybe naively, we are feeling very good about this.