<p>Spideygirl, please don't take this as an insult, but the fact that you were ignorant of the "one-drop rule", shows how very little historical and sociological knowledge have of race relations in the U.S. To be honest, you've amazed and mildly frustrated me on both this thread, and the Harvard/Cabot Residents thread, because despite the fact that there seem to be gaping holes in your understanding/knowledge of historical and current American race relations, you often stridently dismiss respected sociological research, as well as the viewpoints of people who may have repeated personal experienced with racism (both overt and subtle). </p>
<p>Don't get me wrong: On the one hand, I very much respect and admire what I view to be your sincere and dogged egalitarian/humanitarian bent. On the other, I get the impression that much of it is predicated upon wishful thinking, and not grounded in the reality garnered by wide experience or knowledge. Gingerly, I suggest that you might gain insight from a bit of historical research into black/white relations in the U.S., starting in 1619, when the first Africans were brought to these shores, and continuing on through the Jim Crow Era and ensuing Civil Rights struggle. (Actually, that's more than "a bit", I know, but It's fascinating stuff, and gives a solid context to many of the viewpoints expressed by AfAms on these forums.) </p>
<p>I apologize, because I don't know how to word this post as not to appear condescending (because believe me, I DO respect you, and do not wish to offend), but I somewhat strongly feel the need to establish some kind of understanding with you---even if, in the end, we just agree to disagree :).</p>