College Confidential, you’re my only hope. I got accepted to both Colorado College and Oberlin and I don’t know which one to go to.
I like Oberlin because of the music and prestige. I’ve been a musician all my life and, even though I’m not going to be in the conservatory, I still enjoy the possibility of being around so much music. I also enjoy people knowing Oberlin, which (to be completely honest) more people happen to know than CC.
I like CC because it has the perfect major for me: Romance Languages major. It is exactly what I do now: study Spanish and French concurrently (with the possibility to solidify my Portuguese as well). Granted, I could do that at Oberlin, but there’s a specified major for it there.
I dislike Oberlin because of what I’ve heard and seen about it. Things seem to get so hostile socially and politically and though I know I would be able to ignore it if I went there, I don’t think I should have to force myself to do that. I also have seen that there is a lot of protest culture and “us-against-them” mentalities, which I don’t really like. I also don’t like how homogeneous thought seems there. If you deviate even slightly, from what I’ve seen, you would get ostracized. Which, if I’m being honest, seems a bit ironic coming from a school who champions themselves on being the most diverse a college can be. But, I could be wrong. It’s just from staying on campus overnight and interacting with some Obies, I picked up that sort of vibe. Keep in mind, I’m liberal, but I’m not far-left.
I dislike CC’s schedule. I shadowed a class and the three hours felt so long and cumbersome. I also don’t know if being a Language major in that environment would be the best for me. I also don’t like that possibility that if I get sick or miss a class, I will have a deep hole to dig myself out of, so to speak.
Someone please help. I’m getting so close to May 1!