<p>binx - yes, I'm still very much in the trenches at Lincoln Center. BTW, congratulations to your son for getting into and flourishing at Juilliard. </p>
<p>symphonymom - yes, I would go into music again. I've been working in NY for @ 25 years, and sometimes there is a lot of drudgery. However, half a dozen times a year or so, there'll be some magical concert which reminds me of how great music can be. Also, I am lucky that my immediate section mates are good friends -- this is often not the case and is one of the big reasons for discontent amongst symphony musicians.</p>
<p>One question for any musician to ponder is what constitutes success? Playing in the NY Phil? That's success. What about playing Phantom of the Opera? My good friend, a trumpet player you've never heard of named Lowell Hershey has been the principal trumpet of that Broadway show for the last 17 years! Say he averages 5 shows a week, with 2 weeks off a year, that's 50 weeks * 5 shows per week * 17 years = 4,250 performances of Phantom. There's a lot of free time in that show and he's used it well, teaching himself both French and Spanish by reading through the Harry Potter series in those languages. Most of the "happy" musicians I know have serious interests outside of music. In my case, I have a part-time day job as a programmer; one of my buddies has a video editing business; several years back, Dave Langlitz, long-time principal trombone at the Met took a two year sabbatical and got a masters in film directing at UCLA -- he still is involved with producing and directing indy films.</p>
<p>I think binx's all-in philosophy is the best for most kids. I don't think its the only possible approach. Here's an example: Yale. If your son is the academic star you suggest then he might get into Yale. Yale has NO undergraduate music program. However, they do have, IMO, the best musician who happens to play the trumpet teaching in their graduate program, Alan Dean (it's funny, I made the Alan Dean pitch on another thread about trumpet programs, he should pay me a commission). He could take lessons, play in the graduate ensembles, and get a Yale undergrad degree in whatever. If music is still his passion four years later, there'll be plenty of graduate schools that would be happy to have him.</p>
<p>One last thought about playing the trumpet, or any brass instrument. Unlike piano or violin, it's not really helpful (or even possible) to practice trumpet for many hours a day. At 15, I don't think one should be practicing for more than a max of 2 hrs a day (this is real practicing, not just playing in an ensemble). If your son is able to get in an hour or so nightly during the school year and two hours during the summer then he will be doing very well.<br>
Playing maturity almost always comes later with wind and brass players.</p>