<p>and she's really really pretty and I'm possibly going on a date tomorrow to get ice cream maybe see a movie</p>
<p>and so I would like to know... WHAT DO I DO!!??!!?</p>
<p>I haven't dated in a long time and feel scared, anxious like "I Don't know what to do!"</p>
<p>what to talk, how to behave, how to be myself!
Help guys!
I really want to make a good first impression on a date and not just be all awkward and just like</p>
<p>your mentality already doomed your date to be a failure of epic proportions.
get off CC.. do you really think people here have "dating advice?" no.</p>
<p>Wear really tight spandex pants, a purple aloha shirt, and an orange undershirt. Your outfit will give you something to talk about until she walks away.
But seriously, just relax and be yourself. As soon as you start thinking it's intimidating, it will be.</p>
<p>Hug her, or hold her hand, after that there's going to be a silence....not an awkward silence, more like a "nothing else needs to be said" silence.
Talk about her life, and make connections with your life.
E.g.
She: I love my mom
You: yeah my mom's cool</p>
<p>Act natural. The more thought/effort you put into your behavior, the more bizarre you'll seem. Be yourself -- its the simplest, but most useful answer I can give you.</p>
<p>Everybody is pretty much saying the same thing: Be yourself. That's really the only advice you ever need on a date. I mean, if you have to be somebody else to impress your date, how long will you be willing to pretend to be somebody else. Just act natural, and if you and your date hit it off then it's all good. If not, don't worry about it. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
DONT BE TOO CAUTIOUS! That's all I have to say.
Good luck!</p>
<p>Dress nice, keep eye-contact, and be yourself. Don't try too hard to start up a convo, and just let it flow man. Once you get started, and you both are talking and laughing, it's smooth sailing from there bro.</p>