It sounds like all the anxiety is aimed at UCLA - that and UCB are certainly the ones that kids with high stats cannot count on. Total crapshoot is repeated over and over again on cc and it is so true. UCLA turns away near perfection in droves, so don’t count on those and avoid heartbreak. I know a 4.6, 34 ACT, 800 Math 2, zillion APs, instate female, with all the other bells in whistles - that got into Stanford but not UCLA CS, go figure. There are so many stories like that out of UCLA. I had three accepted to UCLA that chose privates instead, to each their own in the college game.
Your list is really diverse, which is good, but do you know what she wants in a school? She doesn’t have to get into all of the schools she applies to, but do think about what she is going for - smaller, bigger, public, private, merit, program quality, honors program, intellectual fit - those types of things. Still apply broadly and she will have some great options. No sense in being disappointed that she doesn’t get into UCLA if that is not the type of school she sees herself at anyway.You daughter can’t be everything to every school, so deciding a good fit should be the priority. She will only attend one college (generally speaking), not all ten that she may be accepted to. So chillax, some of those on your list are certainly attainable with great rewards.