Outcast at college.

<p>although i have a few friends, i feel like the rest of my existence in college is threatened by my classmates. i am alomst different in every way and i just feel like wacking them.</p>

<p>Get over it.</p>

<p>well, not all get along well within the collective student body…sorry mate. i feel for you, i really do.</p>

<p>lets try and turn this into a dialogue. </p>

<ol>
<li>why do you feel you are an outcast? and</li>
<li>why do you feel “the rest of [your] existence in college is threatened by [your] classmates?”</li>
<li>in what way(s) do you feel you are different than your peers? is it physically different? mentally different? style/fashion/intelligence/shallowness?</li>
</ol>

<p>to add on to what reillytheman is saying, is this also your first year in college? i mean, it doesn’t make a difference, but sometimes it does. i’ve been there. </p>

<p>here’s a few tips if you want to make friends though:
-try and be cheerful–even if you don’t feel it on the inside, people aren’t always the brightest when you are cheerful around them.
-act out–just not like you did when you were 4 and your mother wouldn’t let you have a toy, but enough so that you will stand out. if you school has talent shows, get involved and do a dance or sing or something that puts you out there.
-if you feel like hitting something, go to a gym–usually working out gets feelings of hate and jealousy out. also art does that too. or write it down in a private journal. </p>

<p>if none of that tends to work, forget about your loser classmates. if they don’t want you for a friend then they don’t know what’s going on. keep telling yourself that you are way too gnarley for them and that they don’t matter.</p>