Overwhelmed and need help. Warning: it's long. Help is appreciated.

<p>Hello.</p>

<p>I am a 23 y/o student who is having a very tough time. For the sake of clarity I will tell you my long story from the beginning. (And please don't judge me as I have made very bad decisions in terms of my schooling lol)</p>

<p>I graduated high school in 2004 and enrolled in community college right after. I took a few classes (4) and only completed two and decided to withdrawal.</p>

<p>After this, I entered a "career school" (non-accredited) in 2006. I was enrolled in an Associates in Specialized Business program. About mid-way through this program I found out that this particular school was not accredited and I would have a hard time transferring these credits to a 4-year college. (This school does have enrollment agreements with two accredited colleges but they are too far from where I live and do not have a program I would be interested in.) So, I decided to leave and go back to the community college. All was well but I wound up withdrawing here too.</p>

<p>Fast foward to 2008. I re-enrolled in the career school which was happy to take me back. Unfortunately I had bad attendance and was terminated in the summer of 2008. After I paid back both the community college, and the career school, I decided to see if I could try and enroll in a traditional 4-year college. I was denied from every school I applied to. I hadn't earned enough credits at community college, and the career school credits where of no use (as far as I could understand).</p>

<p>I then tried re-enrolling to the community college but I was told that they could not "accept my financial aid due to having too many credits left to take". I was confused but what could I do? Without knowing what to do or where to go, I called the career school. They offered to take me back (again) as they now have new staff. They told me that I would be finished soon and it would be no problem, so, I re-enrolled as of 9/09. Classes were set to begin in October, which they did. From the first day I attended, they had problems with my scheduling. I was put in classes I had already received advance standing for. Apparently the classes I needed to take did not align with the schedule of the rest of the students. Their option was to put me in a class I already took (Psychology) for "attendance purposes" without me doing any work. The class was four weeks and I attended it for three. The teacher of this class told me to find out where I was going next, as this class would be ending soon. I was then approched by a former teacher who suggested that I work one on one with him to complete assignments in leiu of sitting through that class or any others that I have already taken. He said he would need to run it by the dean. </p>

<p>This monday I was to get word from the dean what the outcome would be. She brought me in her office and told me that I could not work with this teacher and that I needed to sit in class "like everyone else". I explained that showing up or doing the work is not a problem, I just don't want to be wasting my time. She said I could work one on one with another teacher to complete what I needed for my Legal Studies requirement. However, there was no teacher available for this until Thursday (today) and to come back then. Tonight I show up, ready to work and I am told by the Dean and the teacher I am to be working with that now they want me to attend school on Saturdays to complete my Legal Studies requirement. I was unhappy with this because a) I do not want to and cannot attend school on Saturdays and b) this is something that could be said to me on the phone, and not in person. I drove all the way there for no reason. After telling me I will be attending on Saturdays I was told (verbatim): "but you have to come in on Monday to see if you are really going to be coming in on Saturdays from now on. We have to make sure." What? I became increasingly irritated and explained that if my scheduling was going to be this convoluted, I should have been informed of this back in September. Also, I would have never re-enrolled if there was to be this many problems. I understand that I brought this upon myself in some ways, but I was never informed that coming back to finish my degree would cause such a hassle for everyone. What I really wanted was to find out what to do with my credits but since they offered to take me back, I figured it would be a solution to my problem and I could be finished quickly and on my way to a Bachelor's degree.</p>

<p>So the bottom line here is: I want to withdrawal. I am tired of getting the run around and also being treated poorly by the school officials. My questions are:</p>

<p>1) What happens to my financial aid? Do I owe the school?
2) Can I go somewhere else? Would I ever get into a 4 year school?
3) At the very least, is there an online degree I could get? Where do I go from here?</p>

<p>All I <em>really</em> want, is a bachelor's degree in the Social Sciences. I am afraid that I've messed myself up too much in order for this to happen. This can't be the only school on the planet. Help me please! :-(</p>

<p>I think you’ll be most likely to get useful advice if you post on Parents Forum. There are lots of helpful, wise parents there, some of whom may have experienced similar concerns.</p>

<p>Okay. Thank you!</p>