<p>We have a lot in common – my son is a junior tennis player (TRN 3 star - just finished JR year), very good academics, and I think I am in the same economic circumstance as you. I have spent a lot of time thinking about this and researching this, and here is my advice:</p>
<p>(1) Even though your son is a high 4 star, he is just a freshman. Lots of things change between freshman and junior years – kids get bigger, lose interest, get injured, kids who started later get better. College coaches care about your rating when you are a Jr/Sr. not younger. Now of course if he drops a little, that is not the end of the world. He is not going to drop that much and he will be able to play college tennis at lots of different schools. The most important thing is that he will play someplace – he is not going to be on the tour, so just competing in college should be his goal.</p>
<p>(1a) Even though he has good grades now, he has to keep them up. Also, his SAT scores will be very important, so you have to wait for all the numbers to come in to see where you stand academically. But at least he is off to a good start.</p>
<p>(2) Go to TRN and see what colleges are taking kids at his level. As a high 4 star he can go virtually anywhere – even some Ivies. He just might not be able to make the high D1 schools, which he would not want to play at anyway, because you cannot play for USC or UCLA and be pre-med. At those schools your job is to play tennis.</p>
<p>(3) I am an engineer myself. If he wants to go to med school – he should not major in engineering. Engineering tends to grade on a lower curve, and med schools mostly care about GPA and MCAT. Probably a traditional pre-med major will work better.</p>
<p>(4) As far as aid goes – (a) there are lots of things that you may be able to do now to position yourself financially to actually qualify for fin aid in the future. You can read a lot about this on other parts of CC. If you start now, you should be in good shape. (b) that other thread that was referenced gave some great ideas re: merit aid. I am not sure if Tulane was listed, but that is a very good D1 school, and they give lots of $$ for merit aid. Just go for schools that give merit aid based on academic stats only. Do not bother with merit aid scholarships where you have to write tons of essays. </p>
<p>(5) We are going to look at about 12 schools. Some of them are reach for tennis, some good fits and some safeties. I think everyone should pursue that strategy. Aid (whether financial or merit) can vary tremendously between schools. Plus in D3, some coaches may have influence over the award. So you have to have lots of options and be somewhat dispassionate if you are going to have your decision partially influenced by the amount of aid. Also, with lots of offers, you may have the ability to negotiate, even though aid officers do not like that word (I believe the term is ‘revisit or reevaluate the aid package’.</p>
<p>I worked with my S to get to our 12 schools. In our case, it was pretty easy – he does not want to go to a real small school, and that eliminated a lot of D3s. And his tennis level eliminated a fair amount of D1s. But I think if you lay out all the criteria (academics, geography, merit aid, tennis team, etc.) you can get to a reasonable sized list pretty quickly. Start with TRN. I would also ask parents of Jrs/Srs at your regional tournaments what they are doing, and ask your son’s coach about what schools he is familiar with.</p>
<p>I have spent a lot of time on CC, satscores.us, division3tennis.com and tennisrecruiting.net to figure all this stuff out. It takes a lot of time, and I am still learning new stuff. You can PM me if you have any specific questions.</p>