<p>I am so sorry I missed this. Do you know if it will be replayed on Hulu or Netflix or something similar?</p>
<p>Getting educated about the different type of facilities has been my life the last eight years. And yes, different locales have different types of facilities.</p>
<p>I like the CCC, the continuing care community, where your parent first moves into an independent living apartment, then can move over to the assisted living, and then to the skilled care. There are no facilities like this in my area, but the last place my Mom lived was such a place.</p>
<p>In January, I attended a memorial service for one of her friends who I was amazed had lived at this community for 18 years. She transitioned from one level to the other, and even went from one side of the skilled unit to the other before her death in a hospital.</p>
<p>I think independent living places are much more affordable, and if you are lucky enough to get your parents into one of those, you can probably stretch out your dollar.</p>
<p>I did like how this last facility, when my mother went into the hospital, told us to not worry about her next month’s rent. My sister and I cleared out her few possessions from her semi private room and put them in a storage locker in her city.</p>
<p>We had learned a hard lesson the year before. Our mother was sent to the hospital with a bad infection, transferred to two different facilities within a month, and we were so tied up with her, we left her belongings, which were considerable, in her one bedroom unit at the ALF. We were not only charged for the month she was in the hospital, but for the month that we finally came and moved out her belongings. This was a national franchise, and I could not believe they treated us like this after my mother had lived there, private pay, for six years. </p>
<p>The last facility, the CCR, was owned by a company out of state, but they owned CCC communities, not just ALF.</p>
<p>As for the location, I have mixed feelings about that. Although I was my mom’s primary caregiver, I found the facilities in the city she relocated to to be excellent. Even though my brother lived there, I probably made more trips to her facility than he did. But, when Mom had emergency transports to the hospital, he was always there to be by her side when she went into surgery or waited in the ER with her. If my brother had not been in that city, I don’t know that I would have moved her closer to me, though, because the facilities where I live are very poor compared to what she had to choose from her new city.</p>