<p>I can’t remember if I’ve posted any of this, and I’m too exhausted to go back and look, so forgive me if some of this is a repeat.</p>
<p>Starting 5 or 6 weeks ago (I think), my dad had a rash of falls, at least 6 over the course of a month, and 3 in the space of one week. In the last fall, long story short, he broke his ankle. That weekend I had a conversation with his Assisted Living and they felt they simply couldn’t keep him safe any more, and that’s obvious to me too. We had to first get him out of there immediately, and then start looking for a higher level of care. </p>
<p>So Dad’s been in skilled nursing for 10 days (private pay, since there was no 3-night hospital stay), pending a visit to the orthopedist and a frantic search for housing. We’ve been working with a senior placement person who has led us to a couple of attractive Board & Cares. We were about to pull the trigger on one of them, planning to move Dad as soon as this weekend and Mom within the month. But the ortho visit today changed everything once again. </p>
<p>He needs immediate surgery, it turns out, and that’s scheduled for tomorrow. When he’s discharged, I’d guess he’ll be in a cast for 6 weeks or so, and then will need really intensive therapy for some weeks since that much downtime will have atrophied what little muscle he has. </p>
<p>For a small, compliant person, I can see that a B&C might be able to manage this, but Dad is neither. First, he’s a tall guy and can bear almost no weight and assist only feebly with only one arm. Transferring him from, say, bed to wheelchair is like moving a 6’2" 180-lb bag of sugar, and every transfer today required two people. I don’t see how one female aide at a B&C is going to be able to manage him. Second, he is determined to get out of bed and walk around. Even today after they’d splinted him, he was saying, “I’ll have to figure out how to walk with this thing.” The only way they’re keeping him in bed at the hospital is with a bed alarm and room camera on him. So it seems to me that he’s going to be too much to handle for a Board & Care until he’s recovered and at least somewhat rehab-ed. But that’s just my guess – does anyone have more knowledge?</p>
<p>In the meantime, I guess our search for a Board & Care is on hold for now. Mom is fine to stay at AL until Dad’s ready to go to a B&C. I do see a couple of silver linings to this new wrinkle. If I can persuade the hospital to keep him for 3 nights, then skilled nursing will be covered by Medicare. And our search for new housing can proceed in a slightly less panicky way than it has been for the last week.</p>